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Post by **GenevieveDawn** » Wed Nov 03, 2004 8:54 pm

I've been in that situation twice actually so I understand completely. You wan't them out, but you honestly love them too. I still love my ex very much (my youngest one's Dad), but it's been a year and a half and he still doesn't work consistently (plus MANY other things). He moved in with another woman to take care of him and support him. I just refuse to be with a man who needs me to take care of them. It's hard though because even after all this time I love him, but I know that it would never work and I'd never be truly happy. So just wanted to let you know, I know what you're going through.

Post by **Fanny** » Thu Nov 04, 2004 7:29 pm

GenevieveDawn wrote:I've been in that situation twice actually so I understand completely. You wan't them out, but you honestly love them too. I still love my ex very much (my youngest one's Dad), but it's been a year and a half and he still doesn't work consistently (plus MANY other things). He moved in with another woman to take care of him and support him. I just refuse to be with a man who needs me to take care of them. It's hard though because even after all this time I love him, but I know that it would never work and I'd never be truly happy. So just wanted to let you know, I know what you're going through.

Thank you

Post by **Starwitch** » Wed Nov 10, 2004 7:35 pm

I have been in the same situation many times in my life. It always ends eventually, but I do a lot of back and forth before ever leaving for good (despite all my advice.) I wish you the best of luck Fanny.