fear of...
fear of...
so i have this unreasoned fear of learning to drive.
i've always just kinda perfered walking everywhere. but i cant walk everywhere for the rest of my life or bum rides. its just not practicle.
i postponed taking the written test till my 18th birthday.
well its comming up on my 19th birthday in april. and i still feel as if im not ready. i tried to take the written test but i think my fear is holding me back from passing it. i suck at test-taking and espically if i eithier dont think the "subject" is intresting... or if there is some other reason i dont want to pass it. i was wondering if anyone had anything that could help me oversome this. cuz i really dont want to have to dish out money for all this crap again later. weird thing is i have a car i'd be able to drive. i just dont know whats holding me back. should i try meditaiting or scrying? what do i do to get this done? i want to be able to drive so i can go to collage, get a good job, and move out and all kinds of reasons. none of them seem to be strong enough to do it.
i've always just kinda perfered walking everywhere. but i cant walk everywhere for the rest of my life or bum rides. its just not practicle.
i postponed taking the written test till my 18th birthday.
well its comming up on my 19th birthday in april. and i still feel as if im not ready. i tried to take the written test but i think my fear is holding me back from passing it. i suck at test-taking and espically if i eithier dont think the "subject" is intresting... or if there is some other reason i dont want to pass it. i was wondering if anyone had anything that could help me oversome this. cuz i really dont want to have to dish out money for all this crap again later. weird thing is i have a car i'd be able to drive. i just dont know whats holding me back. should i try meditaiting or scrying? what do i do to get this done? i want to be able to drive so i can go to collage, get a good job, and move out and all kinds of reasons. none of them seem to be strong enough to do it.
peace and love and blessed be
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Maybe you should try to think of why you're afraid.
Then think of the chances of it happening.
If it seems likely think of how you can prevent it.
That's what I do, it may not work for you.
Then think of the chances of it happening.
If it seems likely think of how you can prevent it.
That's what I do, it may not work for you.
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To feel like
Feeling like a teargas
Which slides like an hybrid emotion
To feel like
Feeling like a teargas
Which hurts like artificial love
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To feel like
Feeling like a teargas
Which slides like an hybrid emotion
To feel like
Feeling like a teargas
Which hurts like artificial love
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Just relax, it is often apprehension and nervousness that causes the fear, meditation can help but you will have to face your fears eventually. Good Luck.
Do not attempt, Achieve
Do not hear, Listen
Do not go blindly forward, See
Do not judge, Understand
Do not forget, for in this you shall learn nothing
-The Judge
Do not hear, Listen
Do not go blindly forward, See
Do not judge, Understand
Do not forget, for in this you shall learn nothing
-The Judge
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have you ever tried sitting in the driver seat of a parked car before? I'm thinking that maybe if you sat behind the whell of a car, while it is running, but safely in park, and with park break on, or even with the motor not running at all, if you feel that is even safer, then there is a chance any driving related tragady hidden in your mind, if there is one, will be trggered. This should seem even more likely if you have been meditating about it, and your subcounsious mind knows that you are trying to access that memory.
Edit: I went over this post and redid it after I realized that it made almost no sence. LOL, that's what I get for trying to type wiht a cat tryoing to step on my keyboard, and another jumping on my lap. Sorry about that horrid post.
Edit: I went over this post and redid it after I realized that it made almost no sence. LOL, that's what I get for trying to type wiht a cat tryoing to step on my keyboard, and another jumping on my lap. Sorry about that horrid post.
Blazewind
The only truely stupid question is the one that no one had the nerve to ask.
The only truely stupid question is the one that no one had the nerve to ask.
im in the same position as you but the only difference is that im almost ....
20
and im so afraid of driving, im afriad that im going to crash and then die. im afraid of everything and plus i get easy distracted i can be learning how to drive and then oh my goshhh what a pretty puppy and then there i go almost hitting the curb and my boyfriend screaming "what the hell is worng with you " and then i will be like ok you drive then
but i have to learn also because i already have a job as a secretary and my mom usually drives me . but hopefully in two week im going to get a car ( amazing im going to get a car and i don't know how to drive) and hopefully i will learn
20
and im so afraid of driving, im afriad that im going to crash and then die. im afraid of everything and plus i get easy distracted i can be learning how to drive and then oh my goshhh what a pretty puppy and then there i go almost hitting the curb and my boyfriend screaming "what the hell is worng with you " and then i will be like ok you drive then
but i have to learn also because i already have a job as a secretary and my mom usually drives me . but hopefully in two week im going to get a car ( amazing im going to get a car and i don't know how to drive) and hopefully i will learn
"Light up the Darkness" Bob Marley