Help needed, getting rid of ex(s).

[L.J.Hex]

Hello, long time no see.

I haven't been posting for a while, life has been kind of on the way and I've been busy elsewhere. But now I need your help. I know quite a few banishment/binding spells which have so far worked quite nicely, but I was thinking to maybe find a new approach, maybe a simple, but powerful spell to rid me of certain ex girlfriends...

Let me give you a bit of background, I have been dating this absolutely wonderful girl since last spring and everything with her has been like a dream come true, we are a perfect match and I'm deeply in love with her, she feels the same. I'm annoyed by the attention I'm getting from certain people from my past with whom I don't want to be in contact with. Or actually I do as with some I'm still friends, but there's two individuals who poke their noses in my life and try to intervene with my current relationship or mess up my feelings. I want them to leave me the heck alone or at least keep their noses out of my current relationship and I mean it.

So I'm asking for your advice how to perform a powerful (but hopefully simple?) banishment spell to get these individuals to move on and not poke their nose into my life/relationship. I'm terrible at saying no and ridding myself from pushy people so I'm thinking about getting magickal aid to help out with this. I can't afford fancy ingredients for it, so I would want to do this as simple as it gets. The moon is waning, so I think its a good time for this thing in coming few days.

Then there's another thing I would like to do, my current gf is quite sensitive person and she has mood swings here and there and she some times overreacts, I would like to perform a spell to give her more confidence and emotional stability to ease her life. (And mine along with it.) As the dark moon is said to be good time for renewal and new ideas and things, perhaps there's something I could do for her? If you have a good (and again simple) spell for this purpose, shoot! I'm all ears.

[SpiritTalker]

Visualize a blue star on their foreheads when you meet & project "go away, keep away". I've used it successfully on biligerant customers. Note: use keep, not stay as the phrase so as not to confuse the subconscious with go/stay commands.

[L.J.Hex]

Thanks for the reply SpiritTalker, well, that's as simple as it gets. I will go it a go, I was thinking of doing some mediation in coming days, maybe I will add this little gem on my "to do" list and see how it goes. (I'm not sure if I will bump into any of the people in question as they mostly bug on online.)

Thank you.

[SpiritTalker]

Hmm. I guess you'd have to adapt a spell to suit your style.

[L.J.Hex]

So far, so good... No sight of the unwanted individuals.

But my request for advice still stays open if anybody else wants to chime in.

[SpiritTalker]

I take it you didnt figure out how to adapt the star for an absent target. Here's one way:

Make a stick drawing of the individual with some identifying features. Put the blue star on the forehead of the figure. Name the figure as the person. Hence forth it IS the person. Add the drawing to a candle spell if you like candle spells, with a set intention that they go their separate way. Burn the paper and scatter the ash in the wind to reinforce going away.

If you can print one of the person's messages to act as a cyber link, use that piece of paper to draw the figure on. Its like using a paper poppet to stand in for the person. What is intended for the poppet/figure is likewise intended for the individual. No harm is conveyed, only that they go their separate way.

If you don't like stick figures as poppets then do a sigil of the intent for X to go their separate way with each ex's individual name in their own sigil. Activate, burn and scatter the ash in the wind. Meh, you get the idea.

As to helping the present love-of-your-life build confidence, it works best in real-time, not spells. Just offer simple praises when you sincerely feel it & thanks when it's due. It doesn't have to be lavish, just real. Nothing builds peace, trust & confidence like being loved & appreciated.

[L.J.Hex]

Thanks. That's awesome! Doing it as a candle spell is right on my avenue.

As said before, so far, so good, but this ain't yet a done deal all the way.

[barker]

Don't forget to untie the "analytical agreements" that made you and the others unique, do them each individually... These sorts of things can stay pretty evil for a very long time. It is like you say a case of knowing that the life has changed.

[L.J.Hex]

Thanks Barker.

I'll see how this develops... So far what I did a week ago seems to be working, I've heard nothing from the people in question for a while.

[Firebird]

When one has been intimate with another you are tied to them for life. Energetic cords are produced in the love making act that connect (tie) one to the other.
A cord cutting ritual is necessary to free you from this person, along with the other above mentioned rituals and techniques for support. The other person need not be present though if one is on good terms with their ex and ex is willing the real thing is great, other wise a proxy or poppet will suffice.
Conduct a ritual as you are accustomed. build energy as you like and right at the peak of energy cut the cord. Turn and run the other direction, or turn and scream, then drop to the ground go face down to release that energy. (you can continue to scream if it feels like there is still energy left.)
Also use an actual cord rather than a visual one, and connect navel to navel.
Best wishes,
Firebird

[L.J.Hex]

Thanks firebird, This is starting to be plenty to work on. ^_^ Very nice.

[L.J.Hex]

Isn't it just lovely when people from the past stick around too much...