'Just be friends' spell?

[Aniu]

THIS IS NOT A LOVE SPELL...I"M NOT MESSING WITH OTHERS FEELINGS JUST MY OWN.

OK now that I got that out of the way...There's this guy I am friends with and I keep phasing in and out of liking him. He's told me already that he's not interested in dating me, but has been a friend of mine for a while now. Problem is I'm having trouble getting myself to see him as just a friend.I was wondering if there was a magickal way to get myself to see him as just a friend or even like a brother.

[goddessfaithful]

I read this earlier today and just decided to ponder it for a bit. I think before you try any magick you should probably have an honest chat with yourself and try to root cause your feelings for this person. No magick works without complete honesty. If you are trying to fool yourself it just won't work in other words. So start there. And in case you are empathic, is he involved with a friend? That could explain lots. Blessed be!