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by Xiao Rong
Fri Aug 04, 2017 9:22 am
Forum: Ritual Items and Tools
Topic: Ritual adornment
Replies: 5
Views: 2103

Re: Ritual adornment

Great topic! I have been thinking about how to do ritual adornment, and I'm still a little bit torn on the right way to do it. I recently led an interfaith ritual, for which I thought it was important to wear something that is not so off-putting to non-Pagans that they couldn't take me seriously (i....
by Xiao Rong
Thu Jul 27, 2017 8:53 am
Forum: Advanced Witchcraft
Topic: Using Dance in Witchcraft
Replies: 8
Views: 2767

Using Dance in Witchcraft

Hey friends! Pallando's post on Beats Antique inspired me to start this topic. For the past few years I've been studying belly dance with a local group, which I've been absolutely loving! That's been really getting me to explore more kinesthetic forms of magic and incorporating simple dance into gro...
by Xiao Rong
Wed Jul 26, 2017 10:01 am
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: What do you put in your Witches' Protection Bottle?
Replies: 9
Views: 1661

Re: What do you put in your Witches' Protection Bottle?

I've made a variant on a witch bottle once, to absorb the bad energy from one particularly manipulative individual who had it out for me. I used a lot of pins, vinegar, and cayenne pepper, sealed with black wax. It's doubling as a freezer spell as well (the bottle lives in the very back of my freeze...
by Xiao Rong
Wed Jul 26, 2017 1:33 am
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: What do you put in your Witches' Protection Bottle?
Replies: 9
Views: 1661

Re: What do you put in your Witches' Protection Bottle?

Hello friends, this is a great topic, but please be mindful of forum rules that prohibit discussion of certain topics (e.g. use of bodily fluids in spells). Thanks!
by Xiao Rong
Sat Jul 15, 2017 2:49 pm
Forum: Animals and Pets
Topic: Spell to officially make my pet my familiar?
Replies: 9
Views: 5812

Re: Spell to officially make my pet my familiar?

I would be very cautious with making an animal into a familiar. There are many different opinions on this; some would say that animals either are or aren't a familiar. Others would say that a true familiar would make themselves known to you. And still others would say it is unethical to force an ani...
by Xiao Rong
Thu Jul 13, 2017 6:10 pm
Forum: Witchcraft & Wicca 101 - The Basics of the Craft
Topic: I need help getting started, staying focused?
Replies: 6
Views: 2214

Re: I need help getting started, staying focused?

It's normal to have phases where you're very spiritually engaged, and then you get into a rut. Sometimes it takes a while to get back in, but you're on the right track just by noticing your spiritual needs. Just be patient; it'll come with time. I grew up in the suburbs where there wasn't a lot of &...
by Xiao Rong
Thu Jul 13, 2017 5:28 pm
Forum: Gods/Goddesses
Topic: So Skeptical It Hurts
Replies: 5
Views: 956

Re: So Skeptical It Hurts

I wrote a bit about non-theistic Paganism and not needing a specific patron deity . I've definitely experienced it myself, since I grew up in an theist family. Some refer to the feeling of needing something more out there as "disenchantment" -- that our society tends to prize literal and s...
by Xiao Rong
Thu Jul 13, 2017 8:54 am
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: Previous religious vows
Replies: 17
Views: 2888

Re: previous religious vows

Funny, I was just reading a chapter about letting go of the "wicked vows" that we never should have made, in the book, The Twelve Wild Swans , by Starhawk and Hilary Valentine. The phrase comes from the story of the twelve wild swans, who were princes that were exiled after their little si...
by Xiao Rong
Wed Jul 12, 2017 1:01 pm
Forum: Life, Death, and Love
Topic: Thoughts on Love and Hate
Replies: 13
Views: 3455

Re: Thoughts on Love and Hate

"Hate" seems like such a strong word to me, and I have a hard time imagining that it's ever constructive. Usually, one's response to being wronged is anger, which is very different. Unlike some who say that anger is always a bad thing, I believe that anger (used properly) can be very const...
by Xiao Rong
Wed Jul 12, 2017 12:57 pm
Forum: Gods/Goddesses
Topic: The White Goddess, When God was a woman, and others
Replies: 9
Views: 1348

Re: The White Goddess, When God was a woman, and others

I think the main thing is that it's very difficult to find solid, archaeological evidence that there was ever a single matriarchal society everywhere that all practiced the same religion worshipping a single Great Goddess (much less that the one "true" religion was able to survive in a sin...
by Xiao Rong
Fri Jun 30, 2017 10:25 am
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: Intoxicated at ritual circle, right or wrong?
Replies: 9
Views: 1484

Re: Intoxicated at ritual circle, right or wrong?

I would agree with the others here. It's your circle, and you have a right to say that it's substance free. Ritual requires a certain frame of mind that intoxication from alcohol or marijuana can negatively affect. It can be disruptive to the circle, and depending on the content of the ritual, intox...
by Xiao Rong
Wed Jun 14, 2017 12:46 pm
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: Online Wicca/Witchcraft courses?
Replies: 3
Views: 854

Re: Online Wicca/Witchcraft courses?

Yes, as SpiritTalker suggested, check out our Witchcraft 101 Table of Contents . It's not set up like a course, but hopefully you'll find some wisdom aggregated from many forum members over time. I don't know if this counts as a "course", per se, but A Witch's Sacred Journey has a Year and...
by Xiao Rong
Fri Jun 09, 2017 9:22 pm
Forum: General Questions about Wicca & Magick
Topic: Revenge spell just made everything better for him?
Replies: 12
Views: 1557

Re: Revenge spell just made everything better for him?

Yes, your main goal should be trying to let him go ... In my experience, there are some people (including pretty much all psychic vampires) who thrive off of their toxic bonds with others. Even trying to do something like get revenge on them just feeds them and makes them stronger, while draining yo...
by Xiao Rong
Thu May 25, 2017 3:04 pm
Forum: Psychic Ability, Precognitive Dreams, Empathy
Topic: Bad feeling from first sight?
Replies: 14
Views: 2173

Re: Bad feeling from first sight?

I stopped suppressing my intuition a few years ago, and developing an intuition about people who are dangerous or are lying is one of the best things that's happened to me. When the alarm bells and red flags are going off in my head, I don't ignore them anymore. I've occasionally made myself unpopul...
by Xiao Rong
Mon May 22, 2017 10:27 am
Forum: General Divination
Topic: Do you have trouble doing readings for yourself?
Replies: 4
Views: 1436

Re: Do you have trouble doing readings for yourself?

I think this is very common; I certainly have this issue myself. I think we are sometimes simply too close to the situation in order to "see" objectively. Rather than giving the message they intend, we see in them what we desire (or don't desire). That's why so often we receive advice to c...

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