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spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:23 am
by Wolf-Tigress
Hi.... soooo...... there is this girl I like, but I have no idea if she was hitting on me or just being friendly. Is there a spell or something that I can use to tell if she is gay/bi or straight? Or am I on my own at trying to figure this out? Haha Thanks for your help! 
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:31 am
by Firebird
have you tried consulting a pendulum?
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 10:42 am
by smogie_michele
I would try working with a pendulum or working with tarrot/oracle cards. But I think the only sure fire way to find out would be to get to know her and see where things go from there
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 1:01 pm
by Wolf-Tigress
Haha alright I will try the pendulum. She has failed me yet. If not............... I guess I will find out eventually. lol
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 1:04 pm
by Wolf-Tigress
Haha well.... My pendulum says she is straight... and not attracted to females. Oh well ^_^ A new friend.
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 1:51 pm
by Badgerstate
Why dont you just get to know her or just ask her? Magick should only be an option when all else fails.
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 7:54 pm
by Neila
I don't know about spells and stuff, but I have some personal experience to share on this one.
I think you should bring up the conversation about LGBT issues with her. It's easy, say something about a gay friend, something you saw on tv or read... anything really, and observe her reactions. Try to discuss it a bit. If she's positive, come out to her. Then, if she's also bi/gay, there is a good chance that she comes out to you, too. Even if she's straight or simply not into you, if it looks like she's open-minded and won't freak out if you reveal your feelings.
If she's acting like "ew, girls liking girls? noooo" then, I'm sorry, no hope.
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 8:35 pm
by AdastraJunction
Just ask, there is no harm in asking a persons sexual orientation. Spells and rituals are not a "cure-all" for everything, IMHO its an abuse to do so when practical means are still viable.
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 8:54 pm
by Wolf-Tigress
Thanks guys but it doesn't matter now. We were supposed to hang out and she never came, Seems to be a thing people like to do to me lol.
But thanks for the advice guys!
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 9:05 pm
by Neila
Oh, I'm sorry... trust me, I know it happens. -_-
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2015 10:16 pm
by Wolf-Tigress
To Neila: Unfortunately it does, but we mustn't dwell on such little things. There is so much more to the universe than that. ^_^
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2015 9:49 am
by Wolf-Tigress
Well guess what! We hung out at the zoo and I mentioned my gay friend and then she took over in asking if I was into girls and saying she is too. So now we are dating and she is a wonderful person so far besides the whole first hanging out plans........... But yeah. Just wanted to share that. Thanks for all the advice guys.
Re: spell to know if someone is gay/bi or not?
Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2015 4:38 pm
by Firebird
i guess that's why it's called breaking the ice...that can be hard sometimes