Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

[WhoseLineBabygirl]

i highly recommend the "view what someone thinks of you" it really works

[mysticfyrefly]

I think when it comes to love they say its one of the strongest emotions there is look at history how many things happened because of love how many things were influenced because of it. I think love is nothing to mess with I think as for me i'm gonna let things go as they lie I'm single now and a bit discouraged about being alone I've done a few small love spells and a few have worked but all in all the love I want isn't going to come from a spell to make someone else love me and as far as attractions spells trust me they often attract the ones you really don't want at all. If love is meant to be it'll happen on its own.

[resboard]

I have tried the Reveal what someone thinks of you spell and I have had no success. I tried in 3 nights and nothing. Is there something i'm missing? Am I just not able to see this? I really need help with my current situation.

[Addicus]

Magic is not an instant fix. You can't perfom a chant/ritual/spell/curse/etc and expect results instantly. Give it time, try to work through it. Also, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

[resboard]

I am 23. I don't expect all spells to work instantly. I guess since it says do it before you fall asleep and write down what you see as soon as you wake up, that implied to me that it should work that night? And since it wasn't happening i figured i must be doing something wrong.

[Addicus]

might I reccomend checking the spell index topic. There may be a spell in that list you might find useful. I know there are lots of love spells there....

[hedge*]

Well, in my humble opinion you need to have a basic understanding of magic and how magic works......no good just jumping straight in without any knowledge and understanding.

[thetouch]

is magnetism can help to attract someone?

i want to try magnetism but i dont know how to chant magnetism spell...

[rawrjess]

I'm a newbie on the board, but I'd like to share my opinion as well. :]

I have an odd take on love spells. I think it's perfectly fine to cast a general looking for love spell to bring an unnamed lover to you. I am completely against trying to force someone to love you, it's not right, and as I've matured, I've grown to respect that more.

I think, the only time it's okay to say a specific name in a love spell is if it's specifically built to allow this person their free will.

An e-friend of mine casted a love spell "on" herself and a boy she liked very much but never spoke to because they were both so shy. She constructed it herself and specifically stated that she was open to love with him if he was open to love with her. I think the way she wrote it, was that she asked the Goddess to guide her and give her a 'love glow' which basically made her more approachable by the said guy.

She specifically used his name to say 'If he wants me, I want him right back' in the spell. It worked, she thanked the goddess, and they dated for a while. They broke up on good terms because he had to go to school out of state, but she admitted that what they went through together made her a better person and more open to love in general.

So I think that's the only time it's fine to say a name. :] Never mess with a person's free will! No me gusta. If someone loves you, they must love YOU, not be obligated to by being bound to you.

[snowbunny_babie]

you cant use a love spell to attract a specific person because it thier own free will, but mabey you can attract love.

non manipulative love spell

You will need:

A red candle

A pink candle

Red or pink flower petals

Some purple lilacs

A red pen

White paper

An envelope

Some perfume

A symbol of permanence/stability of your choice

With the paper and pen, write ten things you would like in a lover. Set the paper down on a flat surface and say:

Aphrodite and Venus, bring me a lover.
Let he/she be faithful and true
Let he/she love me for who I am
And let me love him/her for who he/she is.

Light the pink candle, and say

Let the first feelings of love strike me and this unknown person Let our love be one of friendship and romance

Light the red candle, and say:

Our relationship will be strong, and we will have the courage to trust each other and to be ourselves, and to help each other overcome whatever crises may befall us.

Spray the paper with perfume. Put it and the flower petals and the symbol of permanence in an envelope and seal it, imagining being happy and safe in the lover’s arms or something like that. Say:

Let this love be sweet and flourishing like these flower petals, but let it be far more enduring, like (permanence symbol).

Then finish the spell by keeping the envelope with you, or burying on your property, or keeping it by your bed at night.


by: micaela

[Pixie 89]

Yes but love spells can lead to so much worse. You are asking the fates to change your love life. Why? Love is all around us. You want to find that right person it will never happen. Even when you are married to someone are they really right. No cause you feel in love with them for who they are not what the spell did for you. A spell is messing with shit that you are not to. An love spells are the biggest mistake to mess with. I am sorry. I just believe that messing with the heart is the worst thing to do. You care that much and finding that right person for you is out there you just need to open up and see it.

I totally agree with you, Four Souls!!

[JackRabbitSlims]

I'm looking for a love spell, to give someone a push. Not me, I'm happily engaged and found the man of my dreams

But my sister, always seems to be a bit unlucky in love.

Does anyone have a spell that would give someone a push? Or should I just not meddle in her love issues at all? :/

I just want to see her happy, you know?

[Pixie 89]

I'm looking for a love spell, to give someone a push. Not me, I'm happily engaged and found the man of my dreams

But my sister, always seems to be a bit unlucky in love.

Does anyone have a spell that would give someone a push? Or should I just not meddle in her love issues at all? :/

I just want to see her happy, you know?

I can understand that you want, your sister to be happy. My opinon is I wouldn't even force it. Just let love find it's way for your sister, and whatever is ment to be, is ment to be..

[Maximus]

Where can I find "Purple Lilacs"?

you cant use a love spell to attract a specific person because it thier own free will, but mabey you can attract love.

non manipulative love spell

You will need:

A red candle

A pink candle

Red or pink flower petals

Some purple lilacs

A red pen

White paper

An envelope

Some perfume

A symbol of permanence/stability of your choice

With the paper and pen, write ten things you would like in a lover. Set the paper down on a flat surface and say:

Aphrodite and Venus, bring me a lover.
Let he/she be faithful and true
Let he/she love me for who I am
And let me love him/her for who he/she is.

Light the pink candle, and say

Let the first feelings of love strike me and this unknown person Let our love be one of friendship and romance

Light the red candle, and say:

Our relationship will be strong, and we will have the courage to trust each other and to be ourselves, and to help each other overcome whatever crises may befall us.

Spray the paper with perfume. Put it and the flower petals and the symbol of permanence in an envelope and seal it, imagining being happy and safe in the lover’s arms or something like that. Say:

Let this love be sweet and flourishing like these flower petals, but let it be far more enduring, like (permanence symbol).

Then finish the spell by keeping the envelope with you, or burying on your property, or keeping it by your bed at night.


by: micaela

[Maximus]

Hi, Petite_Oxma. Here is my opinion based on your situation you've given. If you have known her for so long and so close to her and you do all these thing to KNOW that she is taken care of means she mean a lot to you. And you also don't want to disrupt her free will you say. Then I say go through your fears and confront her. Tell he how you feel from your heart. DO not rehearse a speech. I repeat do not ever rehearse a speech. It won't be from your heart anymore when you tell her and it will work so much better if you just let it happen. Don't be afraid and take the risk. Without it life is boring. Embrace it.

Well I had a rather long winded post in the main forum before I noticed this. I've read every single post in this thread and accept that it's generally considered a bad idea to cast love spells... infact I was aware of this before. I've tried a proffesional service (Ashra) and that didn't work with my situation.

Let me explain it... my ex persued me originally, and the funny thing is I was not interested in her at all at first but now I just can't imagine anyone else we had two years that were pretty rocky but still managed to be fullfilling. And I've been in many relationships before, I'm hardly some love stuck kid but for some reason I feel bound to her... loving and providing for her are my top concerns, she knows this and it has become the basis for our friendship since we broke up... I just do things for her, and we talk and hang out... but I just do a lot for her, because making her happy really just pleases me more then anything. And she's not using me... after our break up I went through a period of depression until I fully learned to accept myself (there were some lingering issues I had for a long time that kept me from really loving myself) I hurt her a lot during that period and it went from a situation where, she did want to reunite with me when the time is right to her just wanting to be friends.


But like I said she's not using my gestures towards her, because she protested them for a while until I finally manged to explain that it was important to me, and that she could just be grateful she had a friend who was willing to do so much for her.


Anyway, I wanted to try the love spell here: http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/s ... t-love.htm

but... I don't want to disrupt her free will and I'd rather be close friends forever then have a messed up relationship. I want to re-kindle what I believe is still there in her, love and forgiveness. But not to just take away her free will and force her bac, that would be abhorent to me. So I dunno, if there is a way to give her a gentle nudge, and see what happens?