Re: Reciprocity in love
Posted: Thu Apr 12, 2018 2:20 pm
Hello all,
Well some new updates, I guy has recently expressed an interest in me. At first I was not attracted to him but he seemd ok and I would usually see him at a bar where I like to hang out. I did get the impression that several times he had come there he came just to see me. Well, I did start to develop feelings for him and genuine interest. And the last time I saw him, his friend told me not once but twice that he adored me. Which made me happy, seems cliched I know, but I thought he only wanted sex, after this I thought he really was interested. That was the last I've seen him. I have been more friendly and relaxed that time with him, since I thought this might lead somewhere. Since then he has flatout rejected me in messages and had even send some messages to a friend of mine who he had met that evening if she would meet with him. So there, the curse or karma continues. I develop feelings, and as if they are toxic, they just run :/. Or are suddenly interested in someone else. It literally happened overnight.
So, it is hard to believe that I am the only one with such a problem, but lack of more shch cases on google and very few responses here makemme think this is extremely rare.
Help, please
Well some new updates, I guy has recently expressed an interest in me. At first I was not attracted to him but he seemd ok and I would usually see him at a bar where I like to hang out. I did get the impression that several times he had come there he came just to see me. Well, I did start to develop feelings for him and genuine interest. And the last time I saw him, his friend told me not once but twice that he adored me. Which made me happy, seems cliched I know, but I thought he only wanted sex, after this I thought he really was interested. That was the last I've seen him. I have been more friendly and relaxed that time with him, since I thought this might lead somewhere. Since then he has flatout rejected me in messages and had even send some messages to a friend of mine who he had met that evening if she would meet with him. So there, the curse or karma continues. I develop feelings, and as if they are toxic, they just run :/. Or are suddenly interested in someone else. It literally happened overnight.
So, it is hard to believe that I am the only one with such a problem, but lack of more shch cases on google and very few responses here makemme think this is extremely rare.
Help, please