Yellow diamond light wrote:I would really rather this being was in this world with me instead of my soul having to travel to her world to spend time with her, but she ...... she can be in this world but doesn't have a vessel like I do.
Well I've noticed that the souls of people come to me, souls of both dead and incarnated people can appear in the form of condensed air (such as Robert Kirk described talking about fairies if I remember correctly) with an equal magnitude for both the living and the dead. It's just another layer of creation.
If she claimed to have no vessel here, she might as well lied to make it a surprise later on in time.
There are pathworking meditations within Qabalah's Sephirots (etymological ancestor of word "sphere") if one would make a path from Netsah to Malkut, he'd be drawing the Venus down to the Earth. But spirits may not like to be dragged down by force and such meditation could conclude into attracting some real random
women into your life.
So it's a question of communication with the given spirit and also, there is more fun and pleasure in the intriguing game of not knowing for sure than in having everything under the control by force.