there is quite a few layers to what you are describing.
- making a living ($$$)
- dealing with the issues of others
- dealing with own issues
- frustration of having outside perception projected onto your gift
I would gently advise coming into acceptance of who you are - if you are an empath, shaman, healer etc, the connection with others is strong whether we like it or not. And so, the resistance only makes it more painful. Once you are able to accept this path, (Hero's Journey, Call to Adventure), you will have more Peace and Clarity, to equipt yourself in the right way, as you walk this path.
For all three types mentioned above, grounding helps tremendously. Giving back our pain into the Earth, the grandest of all Mothers, helps to balance us, and whatever we might have absorbed from meeting others.
I would also say to keep an open mind, sometimes we are of the perception that we are healing others, but sometimes Life comes through with lessons through the people we meet. In the end, we are helping to heal each other, and I think that is the purest intention to guide your next step, instead of stresses about finance or success.
When the Intention is clear and pure, and it is manifested through action, those two things (Finance, Success) comes following after, as a by-product of what we do. In some way, it is the Universe providing for us, as we walk our path and do our work for the rest of humanity, or other lifeforms.
Hope it helps, no matter what, you have the opportunity to breathe in deep good breaths, and have health and many other blessings, we can be grateful for the little things. Sometimes Life gives us problems to solve, and the thoughts/perceptions of others can complicate it. Just listen to the good things, and walk the path mindfully with focus, disregard the bad and negative, never stop finding your way back to Peace.
much love to you!