Spirit in house - advice would be greatly needed.
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Spirit in house - advice would be greatly needed.
Okay so I have a spirit in my house. I don't think it is an evil spirit. My sister says that it is my uncle that died seven years ago. I have been thinking about making ouija board to talk to him. I just have so many questions that I need to ask. It has been seven years since the death and I still can't come to peace with it. I know that there alot of risks and everything that come with contacting the spirits but I am willing to except them if only I could talk to him and get just a few answers to my questions. I am wondering if anyone would think there is anyway I could just contact him or is it just a chance I am going to have to take? I have been thinking more and more about this with each and everyday that passes and he is not with me. He was my best friend and the best father a child could hope for. When I was sad I would go to him and now that he is gone I feel like I have to keep myself locked up and not let anyone know to much about me. I really miss him.
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My advice would be to not use the ouija board. If he's still around he's there already keeping his arm around your shoulders. The ouija board would likely either disturb him or invite entities who may pretend to be him.
I think you should spend some time meditating on him and your times together. Imagine what he was like and what you remember and respect most about him. Allow his essence to come to you and keep you company. Feel his presence and thank him. When you're done reminiscing with him stand up, dust off any negative energy from your past thoughts and worries, then go forward knowing that he's right there.
I think you should spend some time meditating on him and your times together. Imagine what he was like and what you remember and respect most about him. Allow his essence to come to you and keep you company. Feel his presence and thank him. When you're done reminiscing with him stand up, dust off any negative energy from your past thoughts and worries, then go forward knowing that he's right there.
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Your advice is welcomed but that still doesn't help with how I feel. I understand that he is there with me but how am I supposed to get the answers to the questions that my entire family wants to ask? Is there no other way? Plus it is recommanded to have a quiet enviornment when you meditate and good luck on getting that around my house. Unless I try it on the weekend when everyone is asleep. That might work but I don't know anymore. I just wish to ask my questions. Is that so wrong?
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You could try the board, but I've heard some bad things about it. Like other spirits tend to boot out the one you want to talk to and you end up getting the wrong info. I'm not sure what I would do if I were you, but you could ask him if he thought it was a good idea. If he's still there he may give an answer in some way. Maybe he himself can help you with your decision. I hope that helped. Good luck on getting your answers.
The world seems not the same
Though I know nothing has changed
It's all my state of mind
I can't leave it all behind
I have to stand up to be stronger---Pale by "Within Temptation"
Though I know nothing has changed
It's all my state of mind
I can't leave it all behind
I have to stand up to be stronger---Pale by "Within Temptation"
Hi Kris, Sercee is right that your uncle will be looking out for you. If you want to talk to him, try thinking about him and what you want to talk to him about, before you go to sleep. Ask him to meet with you in the dreamscape, this should be safe and dosen't require a board or risk other spirits confusing matters.You can protect your room/bedspace if you feel the need to also, He sounds like he was a lovely man and for you to sense him means he's still looking out for you. I have a houseful of madness at the best of times too, kids and animals everywhere, it can be difficult to focus and get 5 minutes peace. I do a lot in dreamtime.
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I know that I could talk to him in my dreams because I have done it before. I just don't like the thought of not knowing if I will be able to remember what he has said. I guess I could try talking to him through my dreams before I try the board. I am just going through a really rough time right now and I just need some guidence. Does anyone else ever feel like the only person that they can turn to for assestance is a spirit? I know that I'm not making any sence but it is how I fee. Oh and he was a great guy, he only had a problem drinking.
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Yes Kris, I know how you feel, because I feel the same way, I miss uncle Sean very much, and I too know that his spirit is in our house with us. But I just have one question. What are the questions you are wanting to ask him?
And just think krissy, if you can't remember the dream then just repeat it every once and a while. Talk to him before you go to sleep, and eventually you should remember what it was about.
And just think krissy, if you can't remember the dream then just repeat it every once and a while. Talk to him before you go to sleep, and eventually you should remember what it was about.
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I was just want to ask him how long he had planned it and what drove him to doing it that night? I mean was it the fight that they had or was it something more that we didn't even know about?
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