Letting someone know how you feel

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Letting someone know how you feel

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Hi,

this may be a weird question, but is there a way to let somebody know how you feel about him without telling him? There is a person in my life who is very important for me, but there is no way I could let him know directly. If there are way the second question would be if I was able to deliver the message at all (in terms of being skilled enough :)), but I will see. It is really important for me. Thanks a lot!
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For better or worse, the best way to let someone know how you feel about them is to take the mundane approach and tell them. Be it face to face, through a letter, or something like that. Especially if they mean that much to you. Why are you unable to tell them directly?
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How will it benefit the other person to know how you feel?
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blue_flee Good question, indeed! :) It won't benefit him, only me. So I guess, I should let it be and put it in my goiter where all my other buried emotions lie. No honestly, you are right. Excellent question, indeed!
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Siona wrote:For better or worse, the best way to let someone know how you feel about them is to take the mundane approach and tell them. Be it face to face, through a letter, or something like that. Especially if they mean that much to you. Why are you unable to tell them directly?
I know and I'm no coward normally, but in this case it just is not possible. Anyways. I guess, SpiritTalker is right.
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Cherry pie, could burying the feeling be the root of the other issue of attracting negative energy? Just a thought. Transmogrifying the frustrations of life instead of burying & denial might be a way to find relief.

http://everythingunderthemoon.net/forum ... mogrifying
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Thanks a lot, SpiritTalker - I adore Calvin & Hobbes :lol: :lol: :lol:
I will read the whole thread later today.
I already try doing sth similar with energy and it works pretty well: I imagine having a beautiful pitcher full of energy in the most beautiful colors, with butterflies and swirls of color, all bright and brilliant, sparkling....whenever I would normally get angry about someone or sth, I ask myself "Do I want to waste some of this beautiful energy to this person/circumstance?" And of course then answer is no. I guess this is also a form of transmogrifying :mrgreen:
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I just had a disturbing thought - what if I am a negative entity? my gut tells me no, and usually I can rely on my gut, but how do you know? And what do you do about it?
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Hee hee. We're all a blend of both positive & negative. Whichever we feed the most grows. Stop feeding the unwanted energy,that's all. Yea, it sounds like Transmogrifying. :)
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cherrypie wrote: I know and I'm no coward normally, but in this case it just is not possible.
Why isn't it possible?
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Transmogrify the feelings and you will both feel fantabulous. Telling you, the underlying connection in relationships is holy to the core, you just have to unearth that.
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this person already spoken for?
“There are things known and things unknown and in between are the Doors.”
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“All I have seen teaches me to trust the Creator for all I have not seen.”
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Siona wrote:
cherrypie wrote: I know and I'm no coward normally, but in this case it just is not possible.
Why isn't it possible?
Trust me, I can't.
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barker wrote:Transmogrify the feelings and you will both feel fantabulous. Telling you, the underlying connection in relationships is holy to the core, you just have to unearth that.
can you explain that for me a bit more in detail? I'm stupid today :)
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