Tylluan wrote:The most effective love spell you can do is on yourself.
I agree 100%. I did a love spell for myself once, and it wasn't for a specific person. However, the energy and mindset I had drew a really abusive person to me.
The best way to find love is to work on yourself. Honestly, if I found out someone cast a love spell on me, I'd be very upset. Not only that, but if it wasn't meant to be, it could have terrible consequences and it will just be draining for both parties. It will also prevent someone who is truly right for you from falling in love with you.
Work on yourself. It doesn't even have to be spiritual work. Work on your confidence. So many guys noticed me when I stood up a little taller and kept my chin up and smiled. Practice talking to people. Be friendly. Don't do a love spell when you don't know anything about witchcraft or what it means because then you're literally just pouring herbs in a jar and it won't do anything.