Yeh. not what you were looking for, huh.
I've tried things like...
Clear of eye with an honest heart,
sense of humor and pretty smart.
...and I've mentioned elsewhere that every time I've done a love spell for myself I've attracted another stray cat within a day
How do you feel about cat's?
From what I can figure out, people want to be needed. We fill each others needs. Figure out what you need, not what you want, &'write a spell filling the need in positive wording. It doesn't have to be Shakespearean. Use a red candle for power & 2 white candles to represent the two of you. Spend a little time on each candle to anoint them with an oil (just to hold a psi charge) & give red the intent/purpose, & charge white with their identity. Yours is the need, his fills the need. I'm sure you know better than to name a specific person. That's just not smart.
Arrange them in a downward pointing triangle V with the red candle at the bottom point. The down-pointed triangle is to attract, draw to you. Light them. Say whatever words you've decided to use. Gaze only at the red power candle's flame and let yourself feel the moment that you know the spell has worked. Then just relax, drink some beverage of choice, and continue to just look into the red candle flame. And when your drink is gone, go about your business & let the candles burn themselves down. There shouldn't be any stubs left if you use chime candles.
. . . . . Your candle . . . . . His candle
. . . . . . . . . . Power candle
I just made this up so it has never been used and never drew a cat.
Edit: or if candles aren't your thing, try a sigil under your pillow.