Taking what both of you said into consideration, i've gathered some items and am trying to organize the spell. Currently i have...
A pale pink candle for things the color pink is supposed to do, figured i'd be putting the spell on the candle and just letting it burn until it melts away? Or saving the candle and letting them burn it now and then, not sure if that'd be effective though
A small amount of storm water for an antidote against depression, and other stuff storm water does
Lavender for asperging, and to attract kind spirits because they like ghosts
Lamb's ear for protection against negativity and an emotional healing agent
A bamboo leaf for physical protection and luck
Rose quartz for self love and to enchant for them to wear as a charm
Adventurine to aid in decision making and being comfortable with oneself
And amethyst to soothe the mind and emotions, and to encourage deeper perception
I also thought of using some sunflower or cornflower petals, but i think i'd have to make a poultice out of them and i don't know how to do that, and i'm not sure their properties are appropriate anyway. I do also plan on using a white sage leaf in the rose quartz enchantment for the ex-partner, because i know it kills the ego and is good for grounding, but please tell me if that's wrong or there's something i may not know about.
More things i have that i could maybe potentially use for this are a red jasper, a couple white rose petals, a pinkish cultured pearl, a few tiny bivalve shells, some peppermint leaves, a big piece of selenite, a little amethyst cluster, some hemp cord?? and plenty of sigil making ability! Don't know what most of those do, they just seem possibly helpful, though i'd like to keep the spell rather simple because even though my friend will participate, they might be a bit too self-conscious/nervous for a detailed process.
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