A spell to bring forward her love for me

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EthanR
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A spell to bring forward her love for me

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My fiance has had an emotional event traumatize her. We're crazy in love and meant to be.. I need to do something that pulls the love into focus over her past.

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Most would consider this manipulation.....Unless you have her permission. If she is on board with trying to refocus her hypersensitivity (which is what I presume is happening) she will have better results if she participates in the spell with you.
Healing from trauma isn't an easy thing and it could take years to make progress. Patience and understanding from all parties is essential for any healing to happen. Also it may take more than just a spell to gain any long lasting remedy from trauma.
Find out if she wants your help.
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Re: A spell to bring forward her love for me

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I don't want to force her to anything. Just open up what she already feels.

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That doesn't answer Firebirdfly's question. Do you actually have her permission?

There is your perception of what you think she feels, and then there is her actual self. Ethically speaking, explicit permission for this kind of work is best. Has she asked you to open her up, or have you asked her if she would be open to you performing this work?

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Re: A spell to bring forward her love for me

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Why not a spell to help lessen her trauma and emotional pain surrounding the event you mentioned, rather than one that focuses on her love for you? Wouldn't that be better for her well-being?

I don't mean to be harsh, but choosing to focus on her love for you seems to be more focused on what is better for you rather than what is better for her.

In any case, no matter what kind of spell you decide to do, if you do it without her knowledge and permission, it is not a loving act.

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Ethan, I would say that sending healing energy and a clarity spell for her to process her trauma is not a terrible thing in and of itself. However, as others have mentioned, if you don't have her permission and you're trying to rush the healing process because you don't want to deal with it, then the spell you're asking for is likely to backfire. As many members can attest to, trauma is immensely complex and it can take years, even decades, to come to terms with it; you can never go back to the way you were before, but instead have to learn to live with it. The more you try to rush or bury the healing process, the worse it'll be when it surfaces later on (as it inevitably will). If your goal is really to help her heal, then you should focus on supporting her on her path, wherever it may go, rather than dictating where her path should go.
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