melinda wrote:Okay, I haven't managed to read the entire thing -lots of pages, I'm not even half way through, but I decided to answer anyway, I've noticed that lots of people are against love spell, and all about kharmic debts and I figured someone might want to hear the other side of things.
I'm not against love spells, I've never used one, never seen the point, but I've cast some. With friends of mine or...for friends of mine.
I'm of the opinion that as long as the spell isn't too forceful or intrusive, I really can't see the difference between that and another sneaky way to make someone love you. I think making someone who doesn't seen interested look at you in a new like by changing him instead of changing yourself with make up or by downright pretending to be a person you're not is probably sounder.
I'm not talking here about the really hardcore crap here, but if two people are single and interested in a relationship, using a spell to make someone you fancy see you in a new light is just a way to make him attracted enough to want to get to know you without perjuring yourself.
This is similar to something I've been thinking about. My situation is a bit different, in that a certain man has charmed the hell out of me, in ways that might be considered manipulative. This is not some slimeball, it's someone I've known for years who is so wonderful and kind in many ways (which is how he finally won my trust), and who naturally has considerable charm and knows how to use it. And I can't really blame him for that.
So, I finally opened up to him emotionally during a time when I felt extremely vulnerable and uncertain. We became quite close, and had just started admitting to some very warm feelings for each other. Things were actually just starting to heat up to my satisfaction, when I ran into one of those life-changing circumstances: a bit of cancer, followed by surgery. I was actually going through chemo when he told me that his long-distance girlfriend was moving in with him.
I realize now, in retrospect, that I should have known about the girlfriend. Maybe I didn't want to know, because I'm pretty sure now that I actually had plenty of opportunities to know. I also think he may have mistakenly assumed I did know, but he never ever mentioned to me that he had an actual girlfriend until he told me they were moving in together.
Now, I'm a Scorpio but in my later years I've been someone who tries very hard to take the spiritual high road. I'm very attached to him now though and I'm hurting. And jealous, because, you know, I'm a Scorpio. I'm tempted as hell to do some kind of love spell. Because I do feel from him that his feelings for me haven't changed, and I've had plenty of evidence that he still cares for me, though obviously he also cares about his existing relationship.
I haven't shown him my hurt (proud Scorpio), I've stayed friends with him, I know he's a good person with flaws like everyone. People aren't all black or white in nature, and perhaps some spells aren't either? Or am I just trying to rationalize going after what I want? Because frankly, I'm awfully picky and I don't meet someone this special very often.