Please donâ€™t think I am crazy but, I think that my ex husband may be under some sort of spell/curse or brainwashed. I would appreciate any advice that anyone can give to me.
It is a long story but, I will try to explain the major details.
I was married for 12 plus years and have 2 children. We had a good marriage not perfect but, admired by our friends and family. My ex was a loyal, honest and a family oriented man who would give the shirt off of his back to anyone. 3 Â½ years ago, he shocked all of us when he told me that he was leaving me. He had been having an affair with a woman at work. This was completely out of his character.
There were several attempts at reconciliations but, he kept going back to her. It is hard to describe but, his actions were bizarre. The only thing I knew to do was to I love him and let him go.
The most difficult part to understand is the fact that, He left everyone; me, our kids, his life long friends and his parents. He does not see his children or provide financial or emotional support to them.
Although I did not understand why he did this, I had no choice but to accept and move on. But then, last June, my son was ill and hospitalized. He showed up after not seeing us for a year and a half. He had claimed to have broken up with her and asked to be given another chance and come back to us. I was very cautious and wanted for him to rebuild his relationship with his kids. He appeared very sorry and sincere. After 6 weeks of taking it slow, in an instant he backed out and went back to her. They work in the same building and it is impossible to ensure that they will not have contact. The last time I had seen him, I knew something had taken over him; he was like a robot with no emotions.
After talking to friends and neighbors, it was brought to my awareness that he may have been cursed or brainwashed. I am not racists but, the other woman is Mexican and other Mexican woman have told me about a magic that woman in their culture perform to take men away from their families.
I know he is not blameless and a very weak man but, I am dealing with something VERY powerful.
More recently, he has again contacted me, claiming he misses us. For the last week, he has been communicating with me through IM and begging me to see him. Now, today, He will not respond to me at all. He is gone again and I am angry and hurt.