I would love to work with you! I have no idea where to start since everything I do is self taught and all intuition based.
Pretty much I simply focus on what I feel is their engeries or soul, I calmly ask to be let in to heal them, then I suck away their negative bringing it into myself usually, and send them more own personal positive energy, which in turn kicks me in the butt. I end up being really tired for the next few days, so I guess a better way to deal with the exchange would be a great help

and maybe we should take it to PM.