This is something I came up with myself and it worked
perfectly for me twice.
Get four small pieces of paper and on each piece
write the person's name or the name of whatever it is you need to banish.
On the opposite side draw a pentacle.
Carve the same word and the pentacle
on a black candle also.
Do what you would normally do as far as visualizing
this thing or person being drawn away from you and ask the Goddess for
Light the candle.
Take the four pieces of paper and burn one,
saying, "I banish ______ with the power of fire. So mote it be."
Bury another one in dirt, saying, "I banish ______ with the power of
Earth. So mote it be."
Flush one down the toilet, saying, I banish
______ with the power of Water. So mote it be."
Then tear one into
little pieces and throw it out your window, saying, "I banish ______
with the power of Wind. So mote it be."
Let your black candle burn
Note: It is really best to use VERY small pieces of paper,
because you are going to be littering, after all. Also, if you prefer
to work outside, you can obviously use a stream instead of your toilet.
It really doesn't matter how you do this, but it IS important that your
intention be clear. The only time this did not work for me is when I tried
to banish someone very important to me that I should not have been banishing
in the first place. I put my candle out halfway through because I had
reconsidered. The spell did not work, and there were no unintended
consequences. Your intention is really more important than getting the
spell exactly right.