Kasara

I an former niece-in-law named Kasara. I believe she was named after the line in the Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam song, "Lost in Emotion". I used to think that Lisa Lisa was talking to some girl named "Kasara" (and that your mom knew this and had read the lyrics) but I recently saw the video for the song. In the video, Lisa Lisa held up her hands like "What gives?" when she said "Kasara, Kasara". I realized then that it wasn't her friend's name like I originally thought, it was a question in another language. She's saying "Que sera, Que sera?"

Kasara = Que sera (kay sir-a)

"Que sera sera"
Spanish translation, "Whatever will be, will be"

Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam "Lost in Emotion" (partial) lyrics:

Lost in emotion
Telling you things
you really shouldn't know
Oh baby, I'm lost in emotion
Am I fool at least my friends think so
Que sera Que Sera
Baby, whatever will be,
que sera que sera
Between you and me

It never occurred to me until I actually watched the video just now, but now it's obvious that she isn't talking to her friend, Kasara.

Remember the old Doris Day song, "Que Sera, Sera (Whatever will be, will be)"? It's like that except Lisa Lisa added an extra "Que" to it. She's trying to say, "Whatever will be? Whatever will be?" I'm assuming she's asking a question about the relationship. Ask someone old about that song and they'll sing it to you.

Despite the song title giving people the impression that you can't control the things that happen in life, anyone reading this needs to understand that not only do you control what happens, but you are actually creating it yourself. It sounds outrageous until you study it and understand how it works.

You can literally create anything you want in this life, including plenty of money if that's what you desire. But it's more difficult to get there and stay there if you spend your time around negative people because their energy will bring you down. You know the type... the "victims" in life. They think everything that happens is someone else's fault. They spend a great deal of effort blaming other people and circumstances for things that happen in their life.

Control your thoughts and you control your life.

Do not sit around dwelling on bad or stressful things.

Do not fantasize about negative, violent situations.

You attract what you think about, whether it's good or bad, whether you actually want it or not.

I hope you and your baby are doing well. Same goes for Lasondra. And it was great seeing you guys at the tax place. Your babies are beautiful and you are too.

Heather