should you uncurse someone who cursed themselves?
Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 4:30 am
So I am having a massive internal struggle with myself, and I would like some advice on this subject.
About a month ago, my bf's mother passed on, she was still young, only 49. Through out this difficult time, we have been surrounded by a lot of positive people and energy, however, there is this one person, whom I believe has cursed herself by her own actions during this time, and she has made both my bf and myself so mad, that while I do not wish to cause harm to her, I am soooooo tempted to just do nothing, but wish her well, and turn away.
I will make a list of her "offenses" in as clinical, and unemotional way as possible just sticking to the facts.
what she did is as follows:
1.) Hours after Ma passed, she came into the house, and took the smokes from the table beside where the woman had died.
2.) Every time she has talked to either myself or my bf, she has asked for something else that belonged to the deceased. (things like, all of the clothing, some of the jewelry, dishes, electronics, appliances, personal hygiene items, and a stuffed ram's head)
3.) up till two days ago, she was calling, texting, or stopping by every day.
4.) when she has stopped by, it was for hours (2-6) and she was trying to guilt us into making her dinner like she used to do to the deceased quite often.
5.) when we had cleaned out the deep freeze of food that myself and bf where not going to eat, we had put it in boxes to give to a couple of old bachelors who needed it, and since he had no vehicle at the time, she offered to take it to them, and later we found out that she took most of it, and gave very little to who we had intended to give it to.
since she has done these, bad things keep happening to her, including a non life threatening illness, financial troubles, broken (expensive) items, and probably a more that I don't know about.
I am torn between trying to help her, because she is still human, and letting her deal with her own behavior, and what it has brought her.
any advise would be helpful.
thank you~
About a month ago, my bf's mother passed on, she was still young, only 49. Through out this difficult time, we have been surrounded by a lot of positive people and energy, however, there is this one person, whom I believe has cursed herself by her own actions during this time, and she has made both my bf and myself so mad, that while I do not wish to cause harm to her, I am soooooo tempted to just do nothing, but wish her well, and turn away.
I will make a list of her "offenses" in as clinical, and unemotional way as possible just sticking to the facts.
what she did is as follows:
1.) Hours after Ma passed, she came into the house, and took the smokes from the table beside where the woman had died.
2.) Every time she has talked to either myself or my bf, she has asked for something else that belonged to the deceased. (things like, all of the clothing, some of the jewelry, dishes, electronics, appliances, personal hygiene items, and a stuffed ram's head)
3.) up till two days ago, she was calling, texting, or stopping by every day.
4.) when she has stopped by, it was for hours (2-6) and she was trying to guilt us into making her dinner like she used to do to the deceased quite often.
5.) when we had cleaned out the deep freeze of food that myself and bf where not going to eat, we had put it in boxes to give to a couple of old bachelors who needed it, and since he had no vehicle at the time, she offered to take it to them, and later we found out that she took most of it, and gave very little to who we had intended to give it to.
since she has done these, bad things keep happening to her, including a non life threatening illness, financial troubles, broken (expensive) items, and probably a more that I don't know about.
I am torn between trying to help her, because she is still human, and letting her deal with her own behavior, and what it has brought her.
any advise would be helpful.
thank you~