Everything Under the Moon

My cousin and near friend is having issues with an ex-boyfriend stalking her online. I'm not going to go into detail but I can say there is a lot of BS and hatred coming out of that man. The power of his negativity is draining my cousin in every way possible. Even me once I got involved. I woke up last night, terrified after having nightmares about him and my eyes were sore as if to tell me to unsee what has been seen and that is through his filthy lies. Even back when she was dating him there was a lot of negative activity around him. And he even told her once that he had been involved in some kind of ritual back when he was 16. I have no idea what he has conjured but it seems to follow him wherever he goes and affect the people around him using his hatred as a tool.

Now, we're sick and tired of this and need a return to sender spell. Or at least a strong protection/shielding spell. As this cannot continue! So please if you have some way, please let me know. Of course I have the fullest respect for spells and the Divine and would never curse or hex him or anyone else. All I want is justice, no more no less.

-ikaba

it's not mine but I've found it to be effective

tie a knot at both ends of a piece of cord - visualize one knot as being you, the other as the caster and the cord as been the energy of the spell
"From me to you this spell I break
This was not right for you to make
It's path I will abruptly end
And back to you the spell I send"
Cut the cord to break the spell

When disposing of the pieces I tend to put each half in a seperate place

hope this helps
xx

Thanks, but I am first and foremost doing this for my cousin. She is asking for it, and believes in the Good grace so I think she is prepared for it in her heart. So how would go about making it to protect her?

I would have thought substituting 'her' for 'me' and visualize her instead of you would be enough of a substitution
as for protection you could get a black tourmaline necklace and charge it with protection,
theres a good shieldong technique on the main website for this forum

another thing I've heard a bit is that carrying a mirror round will reflect back unwanted energy or spells
xx

Here's one that I've used a lot with good results:

"All negative energy you send to me
Three times three comes back to thee."

I say it three times or nine times whenever I get bad energy from someone.

Look up how do do a witches bottle and try to think of how you could alter that to protect your cousin.

Get two candles. One to represent the person you would like to disconnect from your (and your cousins) life. Choose a color you would find appropriate. If you can get oils intended for banishing (which you can easily google) anoint his candle with them. I belive Rue is one such oil. Then also get a candle for your cousin with an appropriate color (white or pink etc..) Anoint her candle with oils for protection. ::Side note. If you can not obtain oils simply spend time holding each candle and meditating on it, focusing on the energy you would like it contain. This would be good to do anyway:::

This spell will be a 3 day process. Start with the candles side by side and tie them together with a string. Light the candles and let them burn 1/3 of the way. The next day separate the candles so far that the string is taught, and let them burn another 3rd of the way. On the third day bring them even further part breaking or cutting the threat between them. Allow them to burn out.

The intent you want to focus on is banishing the unwanted person from you life and allowing him to drift away and break the energetic connection between you (your cousin). At the same time you want to focus on the freedom and protection of your cousin (and yourself). Visualize a light so bright and so far out that nothing else can be seen outside of it.


Hope this helps if you have not already solved the problem.
Blessed be,

Sage

Take a miror, place a candle on top of it and draw a salt circle around the candle.

All you send return to thee
By my will so mote it be
Goddess keep us safe and sound
As I draw this circle round

Wrote that one recently, hope it helps.

I am glad so many posted about this! I need something really good to protect me from the creep that could have raped me on my front porch nearly a decade ago. He was recently arrested for abusing and neglecting his children. For the first time in seemingly eternity, I finally felt safe knowing he was in jail. You can imagine how disheartening it was when the bond was set at a mere $1,000. I was fortunate to get away once, but what if I cannot again? Restraining orders never do any good, because they do not include public places. This nutcase would always approach and stalk my friends in the stores, at the mall, etc. I never reported it, and so last week I e-mailed the prosecutor. I have heard nothing at all, so I need to find a way to protect myself.

I really hope that you will be able to find some peace of mind soon and that you don't have to feel afraid. You are a strong individual and you can het through this.
Love and Light
Bless

Dear AutumnMaidens,
Thank you! I desperately need that peace. I always knew something major would occur, but I did not even see this coming. I thought it would be child molestation, because he used to talk about wanting to have sex with the 12 year-old living across the street from him at the time. Hopefully, they checked their daughter for sexual abuse. Meanwhile, I am going to protect myself by any means necessary. At least their children are in foster care now, and not allowed to have contact with them.

Sincerely,
Arianrhodd

I suggest that you get a black turmaline to use as a pendant. Black turmaline is a strongly protective stone,and it also has the ability to send all evil back to the sender. Cleanse the stone and use it in a protective and reversing spell. Ask that it will always protect you and that it will return all evil from this person back to him. Wear it in a thin silver chain. Silver is said to turn black when someone puts a spell on you. The chain has to be thin if you want to be warned for danger,because if the turmaline takes the hit for you the chain will break and you'll be warned that someone is moving against you. You can annoint the turmaline with a protective oil every day or every week,asking it to protect you.

Best wishes,
Buttercup

Dear Buttercup,
Thank you! I will try to find a way to get one. I have always liked silver better for some reason! I already wear a Hand of Fatima bracelet and Eye of Horus necklace. My grandfather sends the Evil Eye, and I think I may still need to do a spell to activate them. Things are still not going well for us. He has cursed us. His thoughts have always been like black magick. It is truly frightening the power his thoughts have. I also wonder if maybe I accidentally cursed myself without knowing it. What if I had the ability, too? When someone hurts my feelings and I get angry with them, could I have done the same without realizing it? What are your thoughts on this?
Sincerely,
Arianrhodd