How and when to curse someone
Posted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:33 pm
Sooooo, I made a habit out of cursing people. And actually it really helps me a lot. Just take in mind how, why and when you do it.
The problem in cursing people is you need to raise negative energy. Raising negative energy hurts yourself more, than it could hurt anyone else (that's like resistance in circuits). So why do you want to curse someone anyway? Did they hurt you? Do you want to hurt them back? Did they hurt someone you love? And how much do you want to hurt them? Most curses seems like hurting them about 100 times more than they hurted you. And you probably have all those revange-fantasies how the curse should work and what it should do.
Well, I don't do those stuff.
Sadly my boundaries are not perfect. Sometimes I get really mad at people, cause they hurt me. Sometimes these feelings could linger for days inside me and hurt me all this time. I won't let that happen anymore.
Like the one time where I had an appointment, I came there and she told me I won't had one. I made a habit of calling there to ask if I really have an appointment, even though I know I have, but this time no one answered the phone, even though I tried for over an hour. She told me, that someone used the phone for over an hour. So anyways, I was there and she said me to go. I really knew I had an appointment, since I have this appointment every week for over a few months not. Sooo, I asked her if she could tell me, when my next appointment will be, and she said, she can't tell me that, she won't know. Well it's her job to know such things, but obviously for whatever reason she wasn't able to do so. Then I asked her if she could ask the doctor when my next appointment will be, and she said this could take about one hour. Since she didn't knew, if he has currently any patients. Well it's only that she works directly in view to his room and really must have seen if he went by with a patient. So whatever. Of course I rather went to work, than sitting one hour in the waiting room for just one information. Of course I had an appointment. Of course the doctor excused how this went.
Anyway, when I went home I was just raging mad because I had to suffer under the incompetence of other people. This really gets me pissed of, sorry. But instead of raging of all the day, i stuffed up all this feelings and energies induced by the behaviour of this person in a small, little and very angry energy ball and send it back to where it belongs. Since it was her behaviour that induced it, I sent it back to her. Really, maybe she had a really bad day, but there is no reason for her to put her negative energies on me, so I'll gave it back to her. It's much nicer than sending negative erngy in the earth. Earth hasn't done anything wrong.
So, that's what I understand in cursing someone the right way. It sending the energies back where they belong. Let the source deal with it. I didn't need to raise energies, I only used the ones she put inside of me. So it's actually a healing process.
The problem in cursing people is you need to raise negative energy. Raising negative energy hurts yourself more, than it could hurt anyone else (that's like resistance in circuits). So why do you want to curse someone anyway? Did they hurt you? Do you want to hurt them back? Did they hurt someone you love? And how much do you want to hurt them? Most curses seems like hurting them about 100 times more than they hurted you. And you probably have all those revange-fantasies how the curse should work and what it should do.
Well, I don't do those stuff.
Sadly my boundaries are not perfect. Sometimes I get really mad at people, cause they hurt me. Sometimes these feelings could linger for days inside me and hurt me all this time. I won't let that happen anymore.
Like the one time where I had an appointment, I came there and she told me I won't had one. I made a habit of calling there to ask if I really have an appointment, even though I know I have, but this time no one answered the phone, even though I tried for over an hour. She told me, that someone used the phone for over an hour. So anyways, I was there and she said me to go. I really knew I had an appointment, since I have this appointment every week for over a few months not. Sooo, I asked her if she could tell me, when my next appointment will be, and she said, she can't tell me that, she won't know. Well it's her job to know such things, but obviously for whatever reason she wasn't able to do so. Then I asked her if she could ask the doctor when my next appointment will be, and she said this could take about one hour. Since she didn't knew, if he has currently any patients. Well it's only that she works directly in view to his room and really must have seen if he went by with a patient. So whatever. Of course I rather went to work, than sitting one hour in the waiting room for just one information. Of course I had an appointment. Of course the doctor excused how this went.
Anyway, when I went home I was just raging mad because I had to suffer under the incompetence of other people. This really gets me pissed of, sorry. But instead of raging of all the day, i stuffed up all this feelings and energies induced by the behaviour of this person in a small, little and very angry energy ball and send it back to where it belongs. Since it was her behaviour that induced it, I sent it back to her. Really, maybe she had a really bad day, but there is no reason for her to put her negative energies on me, so I'll gave it back to her. It's much nicer than sending negative erngy in the earth. Earth hasn't done anything wrong.
So, that's what I understand in cursing someone the right way. It sending the energies back where they belong. Let the source deal with it. I didn't need to raise energies, I only used the ones she put inside of me. So it's actually a healing process.