Everything Under the Moon

Hey, I'm making a spell so my husband will be attracted to blonde hair.. I feel like I can't look the way I want because he's just unattracted to me unless my hair's brown. We've had this talk a lot.. (We have a great marriage btw, it's not that, it's all about his preference for hair color)

I'm making my own little spell and ritual, but I've never really done one before. I just need to know if you guys have any tips for starting one, and what colors I should be using in my ritual. I feel like there might be things I can't fully ask because "I don't know that I don't know" what they are.

I have white candles (I can make other colors if I have to), an apple wood wand with a quartz crystal at the end, incense, (sandalwood and vanilla), sage, a lot of raw quartz, sea salt, shells and sea glass. Idk how helpful they'll be. I know shells are associated with the moon and Venus, but I'm pretty sure blonde hair corresponds with "air". The heart chakra also corresponds with air, and Venus, so I think that's where shells will be able to come in. Any tips and help is greatly appreciated and may good energy come to you all!

Regarding items to use as symbolic correspondences you could incorporate a Tarot significator card to represent each of you. If you don't have Tarot then use a plain gaming deck. Attach a few strands of each of your hair for ID. A significator card can be matched to each party by your zodiac sign associated to a card or by something in the picture that literally depicts that person's character. With an ordinary deck of playing cards kings & queens are either red (rep light hair) or black (rep dark hair). So your card would be the Queen of Hearts as >blonde>red Q>hearts>emotions.

The intent is for him to be attracted - period. Hair color is just a secondary matter.

Edit: My 1st draft has been rewritten.

Am I the only one that is upset by this?
Your husband should always be attracted to you no matter what you look like. I think if I saw my girl naked in front of me then I'm pretty sure her hair colour would be the last thing on my mind...wink wink..

indeed!

I was thinking along the line of glamor magic, rather than a spell on him, use a glamor spell on yourself

Ann summers store will have all you need..lol
I bet if you look sexy and seductive and you start kissing him he literally won't realize your hairs dyed in the first place.
But if you would prefer I suggest Firebird suggestion

Put some white wine in your shampoo and it will make you think divine too.