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Hi,

So a week ago my boyfriend was acting normal, saying he loves me, being sweet, etc. Then two days ago he started acting weird for no reason and now he’s mad at me, won’t answer my calls/texts, says he doesn’t want to be with me anymore, is acting distant even though we used to be together all the time before. He says there’s no other girl and I know he’s telling the truth, so my question is, what spell can I do to make him stop being mad at me/return to me/forgive me for whatever he’s mad at me for? I just want him back and I don’t understand what’s going on. I started a honey jar spell yesterday but can you please please please help me and tell what spells I should do? I don’t recognize him, he’s not himself. Please help me.

Take 3 deep breaths. Ground yourself. You are capable of helping yourself. It does no good to work from a distressed mind set. Move your mind to calm confidence by centering & pulling your energy within; focussing only on successful reconciliation, and then do a spell. Try Road Opener or Talk to Me. A spell shouldn't replace open discussion between 2 caring people. So think about an opening communication spell with whatever you have on hand that might be useful.

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I’ll try that, thank you. I keep trying to talk to him but he doesn’t answer. Is there a love spell I could do to make him return to me?

lanadelrey wrote:Is there a love spell I could do to make him return to me?

Nope. Freedom of Will in the pursuit of Self always beats magic.

corvidus wrote:

lanadelrey wrote:Is there a love spell I could do to make him return to me?

Nope. Freedom of Will in the pursuit of Self always beats magic.

Yeah but isn’t this place about spells? I’m really desperate and I need help

lanadelrey wrote:[s there a love spell I could do to make him return to me?

In my opinion yes a love spell (Lover Return specifically) could definitely work here but I don't think that's the first action you should take here. I think you should start with spells to make him open up and tell you what's wrong. I know you said that you believe there are no other girls involved, but I've seen this exact scenario happen so many times. There's something he's probably hiding and you need to get that out of him. So maybe a domination spell of some sort, or a spell to make him open up or spill the truth.

Keep in mind the things I suggested do affect his freewill so if you aren't comfortable with that let me know and I'll think of other ideas for you! But this is the direction I have taken in the past when doing work on situations like this for myself and others.

Thank you! Could you link me to what spells I should try specifically?

There is a search function on the site. Upper right. There is also a spell topic you can browse. Only you can decide which spells you have the means to do.

This seems like a power ploy on his part, you want to be forgiven for something that your not even sure of?, feels like a red flag to me.
Perhaps give him the space he is requesting. Maybe he needs to think things out. Time always has answers.
Best wishes,
Firebird

I always found, people (not necessarily lovers) get upset every now and then it's just human nature. I also realised i don't have to. When somebody knows you're not going get upset and reactionary back at the situation they'll be 10x more likely to return to you in real trust.

Interesting theory of mine: there's an amount of "requisite experience" in every relationship. And once that necessary experience is up people naturally tend to move on. Point being, if you believe the two of you have more of each other to experience learn from then it's only a matter of time before their soul gravitates back to complete it's duty to theirself and you.

So be patient and detached and maybe consider things openmindedly. Plenty of room for growth there, in you and him... spellcast accordingly... cheers barker

SpiritTalker wrote:There is a search function on the site. Upper right. There is also a spell topic you can browse. Only you can decide which spells you have the means to do.

Thank you <3

firebirdflys wrote:This seems like a power ploy on his part, you want to be forgiven for something that your not even sure of?, feels like a red flag to me.
Perhaps give him the space he is requesting. Maybe he needs to think things out. Time always has answers.
Best wishes,
Firebird

I don’t know, I’ve never cheated on him but he’s very jealous and possessive and no matter how hard I try to reassure him sometimes he won’t believe me. Like he used to freak out over the tiniest things and now all of a sudden he says he doesn’t care if I go with another guy? I don’t understand. He even told me he went on a date last night even though three days ago he was telling me he loves me and misses me. I’m seriously so confused. I did a honey jar spell ten days ago and on Sunday I accidentally lit the candle on fire and literally a few hours later he was acting like this. Is it linked or something? I don’t understand ugh I’m so upset.

barker wrote:I always found, people (not necessarily lovers) get upset every now and then it's just human nature. I also realised i don't have to. When somebody knows you're not going get upset and reactionary back at the situation they'll be 10x more likely to return to you in real trust.

Interesting theory of mine: there's an amount of "requisite experience" in every relationship. And once that necessary experience is up people naturally tend to move on. Point being, if you believe the two of you have more of each other to experience learn from then it's only a matter of time before their soul gravitates back to complete it's duty to theirself and you.

So be patient and detached and maybe consider things openmindedly. Plenty of room for growth there, in you and him... spellcast accordingly... cheers barker

Yeah I understand he can get upset but he’s never been like this for absolutely no reason. And yeah I’ve been bombarding him with messages and calls because I’m like “we need to talk” but he doesn’t answer or barely and he acts like he couldn’t care less when he’s usually crazy about me. What the hell? He was telling me he wants to marry me and have my kids like two weeks ago so it’s not like I’m imagining things. This is a nightmare ugh.

lanadelrey wrote: I’ve never cheated on him but he’s very jealous and possessive and no matter how hard I try to reassure him sometimes he won’t believe me. Like he used to freak out over the tiniest things

red flag red flag red flag.

lanadelrey wrote: now all of a sudden he says he doesn’t care if I go with another guy?

feels like a trick, and something he will use against you later if you do ever get back with him or another tactic to make himself feel less guilty for going out himself.

lanadelrey wrote: I’m like “we need to talk” but he doesn’t answer or barely and he acts like he couldn’t care less when he’s usually crazy about me. What the hell?

Tactics to make you crazy and agitated...are they working???

lanadelrey wrote:. He even told me he went on a date last night even though three days ago he was telling me he loves me and misses me

Unless the two of you have agreed to an open relationship beforehand, this is not cool. and he is trying to make you jealous or to step out on him, so, that like I said above, will use it against you...and probably threefold.
Perhaps the honey jar does reveal those who cannot absorb sweetness therefore are revealed? The honey jar is to sweeten the outlook, maybe so that you may see his minipulation and find someone who will really be sweet to you and not play games....
Sorry to be harsh, it's a long road to tread if he is doing what I suspect, best to review now and be good to yourself.
BB, Firebird

firebirdflys wrote:

lanadelrey wrote: I’ve never cheated on him but he’s very jealous and possessive and no matter how hard I try to reassure him sometimes he won’t believe me. Like he used to freak out over the tiniest things

red flag red flag red flag.

lanadelrey wrote: now all of a sudden he says he doesn’t care if I go with another guy?

feels like a trick, and something he will use against you later if you do ever get back with him or another tactic to make himself feel less guilty for going out himself.

lanadelrey wrote: I’m like “we need to talk” but he doesn’t answer or barely and he acts like he couldn’t care less when he’s usually crazy about me. What the hell?

Tactics to make you crazy and agitated...are they working???

lanadelrey wrote:. He even told me he went on a date last night even though three days ago he was telling me he loves me and misses me

Unless the two of you have agreed to an open relationship beforehand, this is not cool. and he is trying to make you jealous or to step out on him, so, that like I said above, will use it against you...and probably threefold.
Perhaps the honey jar does reveal those who cannot absorb sweetness therefore are revealed? The honey jar is to sweeten the outlook, maybe so that you may see his minipulation and find someone who will really be sweet to you and not play games....
Sorry to be harsh, it's a long road to tread if he is doing what I suspect, best to review now and be good to yourself.
BB, Firebird

Yeah, he’s acting like a real asshole. He’s not like that usually, and he’s usually faithful. Yeah he’s making me crazy. He said “it’s over” out of the blue and I can’t even reason with him. Seriously not even two weeks ago he was saying stuff like “be with me forever”, “you’re the love of my life”, “you’re my soulmate” and now all of a sudden he doesn’t care about me? I don’t even know if he would care that I went with another guy with the way he’s acting. He told me about the date just to drive me crazy. Ugh I’m in my feelings. I did one honey jar on him last summer when we were fighting for no reason and it worked. Now idk if almost setting it on fire by accident f*cked it up or not. I’m doing a few spells, I did a sugar syrup one, another one where you write both the names on parchment paper and bury it with a few ingredients in your garden, lol I’m going crazy. He’s acting completely out of character. What do you suspect he’s doing?