Everything Under the Moon

Hi! This is a wee long, but I ask for your patience and wise advice.

I had a quarrel with a friend almost 3 years ago. We were very close and suddenly she drifted away with no obvious reason. I tried to maintain our friendship alive for 12 years. Despite my efforts she kept ignoring me at any cost.

Finally 3 years ago I asked her to decide what were we supposed to do, I couldn't be the only one fighting for our friendship. Her reply was the worst I have ever seen in my entire life, she was rude, hurtful and very mean. She did her best to cover all the points that she knew would hurt me very deeply. For me the problem was automatically solved, I broke up with her and I don't plan on keeping any kind of contact with her anymore. However, I would like very much if she could see how hurtful and mean she was, I guess it would help me move on. So, I looked up a spell to make her apologize to me. I have found one and was ready to cast it when I read this part:

Please be sure you're not being hypocritical, because that may cause negative feedback... So, all warnings given, blessed be!

Well, I don't think I'm being hypocritical, I just want her to realize she was nasty and very hurtful. But on the other hand, even if she apologizes I don't plan on giving her another chance. I'm doing this to allow my own wounds to heal and therefore move on. For me this problem will be solved after she apologizes. Please bear in mind that I don't have any kind of vindictive feelings.

I would like to know your advice. Should I cast the spell and hope she'll see her wrong doing? Or just let things develop without any kind of interference?

Cheers,
Ana

i don't know anything about spells, but when old friends do stupid things sometimes it's best to let them go.

i would pray to god or the angels and ask them to help her see what she did wrong, even if she never told you so, so that she could be a better person... but that's just me. and then i'd let it go, cause it's not good to hold on to hurt like that.

hugs and sorries over your friend,

steve

this spell is 2 make someone see the error of their ways. this is not my own spell, but i don't know who the original author is.

tools: a symbol of the person, 1 white & 1 black cande

Put on the symbol on the alter & light the candles. say:

Winds of the east run through the trees
three times three, let them see let them see
Fires in the south awaken from sleep
three times three let them see let thems see
Water of the west flow to the seas
three times three, let them see let them see
Sands of the north, rich soils beneath
three times three, let them see let them see

Blessed Be

Thank you, Steve and hummingbird3 for your input!

Hummingbird3, what should the moon phase be to cast this spell?

This friend had apologized years ago. At the time, I sensed she wasn't sorry at all, but even so, I decided to give her another chance and see if I was the one over-analysing the whole situation. It seems I was right, she kept on behaving in the same way, which proved that she wasn't sorry at all. (I think if one is sorry, then when they apologize their actions will change and they'll avoid making the same mistake they made previously.)

I'm trying to let go. However, in less than a month I'm going to meet a mutual acquaintance that will certainly talk about her and will try to force me to apologize for something I didn't do. This is the reason why I'm thinking more about this.

Cheers,
Ana

"If you are being a hipocrit you have to be carefull..." actually, you probably do not know if you are being one... which is normal! We always think we are right and sometimes we are not, especially with friendships.
It takes two to tango. So your friend might not know what she did wrong... and you might be at fault too... who knows? Did you do everything right? She is the one that did the WHOLE wrong?

In my opinion you should not play with spells... As you said before, you do not want her friendship anymore, so, why are you bothered with this? Even if she appologizes, which she probably won't because she might not know she is wrong... a spell will make her appologize but won't make her understand what she did wrong...
Let it go, don't you have a life? It doesn't seem you do... get one, friend!
Live your life and be Happy!