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Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 6:16 pm
by BlackCat
I'm very interested in spells and advice about spells on forgetting a person and your feelings about said person.
Are there any?
If so, how, when, with what?
Thank you!

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 6:20 pm
by Heartsong
This isn't a spell about forgetting, exactly, but it is meant to help you move on with your life. Here it is (it's also in my online BoS heartsong-book-shadows-t25423.html):

One Big Thing Spell

This is a spell that is designed to help you overcome that one big thing that is just weighing you down and keeping you from moving on in your life.


~a white balloon with a string attached to it (helium works best, but one blown up by mouth will do.)

~a felt-tip pen

~four sticks of incense (preferably all in the same scent and in one that brings comfort and peace to you.)

The Spell

Take the balloon and incense to a nice open space outdoors, like your yard or a nearby park. Close your eyes and let yourself feel the magical energies that flow around you. Let them flow into you, raising and enhancing your power. Light the sticks of incense as you cast the spell. Begin by turning to the North and saying:

Guardians of the North,
Powers of Earth, powers of clarity,
Make this spell a reality

Push one stick of incense into the ground and light it. Then turn to the East and say:

Guardians of the East,
Powers of Air, powers of thought,
Make this spell work as sought.

Push another stick into the ground and light it. Then turn to the South and say:

Guardians of the South,
Powers of Fire, powers of energy,
Makes this spell work immediately.

Push the third stick into the ground and light it. Then turn to the West and say:

Guardians of the West,
Powers of Water, powers of emotion,
Put this spell into motion.

Push the last stick into the ground, light it, and grasp the balloon by the string.

Stand in the center of the space that you have defined with the sticks, holding the balloon. Concentrate on releasing your issue with the balloon. Hold it up, and let go of the string. Watch the balloon take flight, and visualize the burden that you have been carrying soaring away from you. You should feel uplifted and relieved as the balloon moves away from you. Don't worry if it pops, that's ok.

Remain in the center until the incense burns down, and then clean up.


Whenever something reminds you of your one big thing, recall the sight of that balloon sailing away from you. Remember that this thing no longer has anything to do with you, and rejoice in the freedom from it. :flyingwitch:

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 11:33 pm
by Echo_of_shadows
Could a spell to get over someone be used in place of one used to forget that person? If you use the "Search for a Spell" feature at the top of this forum, you'll be lead to a search page for the entire site. Type in "Spell to get over someone" and you'll find links that might help you.

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 4:38 am
by Obsidian
The best I can find is a healing spell. I know it's not what you asked for, but maybe as you cast it you can imagine moving on without this person in your life and being happy with that. This spell is from the book Witchy Magic by Lucy Cavendish & Serene Conneeley- I just modified it a tiny bit at the end to suit your purposes.

Take a tall natural beeswax or soy candle, and anoint it in a widdershins direction with bergamot essential oil to banish any impediments to your energy flow and protect you. Then anoint it with lavender essential oil in a deosil direction, to sooth and comfort you and increase a feeling of safety in which your energy can flow. Make a protective circle with a handful of sea salt, then light the candle, knowing that it's flame will purify and burn through any stale, blocked energy, remove toxins and clear your energy field. Imagine the warmth of the candle engulfing you and burning away any longing you have for this person and healing you of any heartache and grief they have caused.

Also, I've found this spell for getting over someone online I think this is what you were asking for.

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:27 pm
by AnaisStar
Heartsong I love that spell, its so simple and can be used for a multitude of things. I also really love how simple you call the quarters. Ill have to remember that. Hope you dont mind if I use this and add it to my BoS for later use.

I need a spell to get over someone, get them off my mind. Might have to try this.

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Thu Feb 13, 2014 2:30 pm
by Heartsong
You're very welcome to use it, AnaisStar! :)

Re: Spells on forgetting someone?

PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 9:02 am
by BlackCat
I didn't get to thank you for your answers and I'm very sorry I was this late:)