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I need prayers and energy

PostPosted: Fri Jan 03, 2020 4:49 pm
by AriannaBadWolf
I need everyone's help.
My boyfriend/husband is amazing but changed this summer. He wanted a second girlfriend. I said no, i dont do that kind of thing. He was trying to convince me everyone is doing it.

Cut to now, he's cheating on me. I'm heartbroken. We have three kids together, and it feels like since he started with this woman he's given up on being a parent. He's gotten to a point where he's suffering and in pain as he ages and feels... I do t know more like a man? But he knows he's doing wrong. Inwant to give him another chance but I need him to leave this woman. It seemed like they were arguing the other day (I saw the messages she sent, but he doesnt know I know)

I realize most of you will tell me to leave him because I deserve better and maybe I do, but I want to try your help and try to bring him back and be faithful to me first.

Please help, send energy and prayers. I'm working a spell to stop the cheating but I need everything anyone can spare.

Thank you so much

Re: I need prayers and energy

PostPosted: Fri Jan 03, 2020 4:56 pm
by SpiritTalker
Wow - I’m sorry for your pain & will pray for your family.

Re: I need prayers and energy

PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2020 6:34 am
by SapphireRoad
Wish you all the best.

AriannaBadWolf wrote:I realize most of you will tell me to leave him because I deserve better


No. It's your call.

Re: I need prayers and energy

PostPosted: Sat Jan 04, 2020 12:15 pm
by firebirdflys
If everyone is doing it,
I wonder what his reaction would be if you said you had a new boyfriend or you were going out on a date? You know, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. halfsm
Another thing that comes to mind is having a talk with the other girl. What are her intentions really? The children will always be his and always a part of his life in some respect, A good man will take care of his kids. Is she on board with that? Maybe that why he has become distant from the kids, she doesn't want a part of that scene and I imagine time that would have been spent with the kids are now spent with the girl.
When you come back on, could you please swing by the intros and let us know a bit about yourself. Thanks!
BB, Firebird

Re: I need prayers and energy

PostPosted: Sun Jan 05, 2020 1:04 pm
by AriannaBadWolf
Firebirdflys
I dont think he honestly realized how much time he spends away from us, I've tried to tell him but he doesnt believe it.
I do know that she's set up her Facebook so I cant see the pictures of them, and any pictures where they are together that any of his friends puts up goes away fast too. I hope things change soon, I feel so miserable and might do something dumb like confront him with it, and I inowbthatcwont go well. I dont know why I cant just hate him for this. When he's here he's normally attentive and everything but that time gets shorter and shorter. I know theres so much stress in his life, our son had to have emergency surgery before Christmas, he's been in pain and health decline, and suddenly work is cutting hours. He doesnt feel like he's supporting us and a failure, all of which lead to temptation and cheating. But it hurts so much that he turned to this woman instead of me. Thanks everyone, please keep the prayers and energy coming. I'm trying to keep going for our kids, but its hard.