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Re: Very depressed

Postby __Oracle__ » Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:01 pm

Holdasown wrote:It will seem like he's most upset with you but your probably the one he's honest with. You should do what you can to be positive and to clean the negative energy but he will have to make the choice to try and move on. I have a site for you: http://www.militaryonesource.mil/phases-retiring. It's all about transiting for military personnel and services to help. He may not think it's a common problem and there is help. I hope it gets worked out, you both have made it through him serving.


Thank you very much for your help, I will check the link out.
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Re: Very depressed

Postby __Oracle__ » Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:07 pm

firebirdflys wrote:Hi Oracle...I'm so sorry this is troubling you, I hope you will be able to spend some time focusing on yourself. If you get in a slump you will be of no help to anyone.
Ummm, I wanted to ask if he has seen action...meaning, has he been behind the lines and seen or been in battle? If so, I would say he may be falling into PTSD.
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He has never been deployed before. I think he is the most worried about finding a job and a new place for us to live. But at the moment I have no idea if we will even be together :-{ he told me that he isnt even sure if he loves me or wants to be with me at the moment.
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Re: Very depressed

Postby firebirdflys » Fri Jan 31, 2014 12:45 am

Oh dang girl, I'm sorry. I hope you are taking care of yourself through all this.
Looks like Holda has a real good link there. I imagine it may be a kind of grieving, he is leaving behind what he had always known.
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Re: Very depressed

Postby Heartsong » Fri Jan 31, 2014 3:46 pm

I am so sorry to hear that, Oracle, I know it's rough. I've been there too. We worked through it, but there was a while that we weren't sure, and it was mostly due to issues my husband had with himself than he really had with me. But because I was the closest to him, I became something of a target. It took a long time for us to move past that.

I hope everything works out, and as Firebird says, don't forget to take care of yourself too.
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