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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby corvidus » Wed Feb 22, 2017 8:46 pm

Yex wrote:Corvidus: Yeah, that's a good lead. The Chymical Wedding of Christian Rosenkreutz comes to mind, although I haven't read it in many years.


Awesome :)

Another thing which comes to mind is Polarity; that in order to manifest the alchemical wedding, a certain polarity must be achieved with the physical body (so that the spiritual Self can manifest). In this system, Coherence amongst things is very important.

At least, that's what the core of the Chymical Wedding talks about (in my opinion).
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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby sillyoldman » Sat Apr 01, 2017 12:49 am

I did some reading a while ago on this subject.There was not a lot there but they claim this is not unusual.In some cases this happens when someone tries to resist a Shamanic calling.\if you fail to acknowledge them and the helpers she or he appoints to assist you with knowledge they can become angry and even threaten to kill you.
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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby autumn swan » Thu Jul 27, 2017 10:24 am

sillyoldman wrote:if you fail to acknowledge them and the helpers she or he appoints to assist you with knowledge they can become angry and even threaten to kill you.


That sounds scary! Honestly, if any spirit ever would threaten to kill me I would ward my butt off against them, doesn't sound right.


tutmosis wrote:I can imagine much information on this subject would be withheld because it's a very personal thing.


That's just it. Spiritual practise alone is very personal and not always easy to explain. You'd only go into discussions about this with people you trust, and don't write much about it on the internet. That's how I do it. I have a spirit spouse as well but since the nature of the relationship is private the things going on between you and your spirit spouse would stay between you too, anyway.

And about the theory behind it, well, I believe in soul mates of the highest level. Yes, the thing with 'the right one', and only one for each of us. Sure, as a human you can love many people in your lifetime, true love and be happy with them but I think on a soul level there is one special mate that you either meet in this lifetime or you don't. But to meet in spirit cannot be avoided, and who'd want that?

I'd say you have to explore the relationship you got there on your own, and learn to trust your spirit spouse. It only worries me that the marriage was done more or less without your conscent...? Then again you say there was a spirit involved that you trust, and I don't know how long you've been practising, so maybe that was the only way to get it to you. For me there was a time of approach when I was awake and aware, and he asked me, and I thought several days of it. It was made clear I could say no, and no one would be mad or anything.

It really is different for everybody. :wink2:
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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby SL » Tue Dec 24, 2019 7:01 am

Tutmosis wrote:I can imagine much information on this subject would be withheld because it's a very personal thing.


Don't ask don't tell.

Well you want to protect with silence what you hold dear but solitude breaks you sooner or later as human is very social animal and wants to share.
Once you're aware of what's going on you can see so many references in the work of variety of people.

First thing I spot was in 2015 song by Kamelot called Poetry for the poisoned, stating that the phenomenon of "demon lover" was considered quite common in medieval ages.
My first thought was "damn, vampiric succubi here and there too bad my magic sucks, I wouldn't want to struggle with protecting myself and dealing with all that".

Then, you can see much more references. You've got Heller's Mentalist, lol, the guy doesn't want to throw the ring away all the time. You've got the Vampire Diaries which is pretty much it. Even some ref. in Charmed 1st or 2nd season.
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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby SL » Fri Jan 10, 2020 5:57 am

SnowCat wrote:I don't think it's talked about much. Possibly because some people would view it as infidelity. Just some thoughts.


Well... it's a bit complicated, the human nature.
I once wrote an email to someone rather wise and her soul came to me fancying to have intercourse. I said "Hey, I just wanted to exchange information." The answer came "Sex is the most simple way to exchange information." And I was like oh well, can't really argue about that.
The exchange of energy-informational value can be refreshing provided you know how to transmute the flaws you draw onto yourself by such thing.
It's quite a dilemma actually. You don't want to cheat so as to avoid disruption of an intimate bond. Yet if you don't cheat you get nervous and eat a lot of ice-cream.

Zoologists would claim man is not really a monogamous animal.

Also some animals for example owls. "In case there's not much food the male owl is faithful to one female. In case the food supply is abundant, the male owl is taking care of more females at the same time.

Now I wonder how much of a difference would really be between a soul and her to manifest into a good, solid physical sex to occur. Probably would require people to risk a bit and have some template of life a bit shaken. Or perhaps not take things too seriously. Also would be a nice exercise to see how a practice of "drawing down the Moon" could be drawn on the Earth to manifest.

Yex wrote:I told my wife about my experiences, as I felt that this was the right thing to do... She was annoyed - not that I had a spirit wife, but that I telling her about it. She told me to just do my thing and leave her out of anything too freaky. lol :tongueout:


Haha this is so iconic. Men are so naive. Women would never tell that, way too pragmatical for that. They are quite skilled in the silent deceit.
Best thing is to see it in public places. Men'd be like, damn I'd check 'em out but she'd notice. Women'd be lurking the subtle way just eyeing around and thinking haha why not, he's got no clue at all.
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Re: Spirit Spouses

Postby SL » Fri Jan 17, 2020 7:53 am

Well I'm bit ashamed to continue posting here after my last post, but nevermind this is interesting.

SpiritTalker wrote:So I'd interpret dreaming of marriage to a spirit spouse as very literally opening of the path to the fulfillment of union between mundane and spirit level of the self.

I wonder what it takes for souls to get interested in each other. Probably might be way easier than the mundane connecting, although the attraction'd be about the same, we've got a lot of hindrances when it comes to Earth realm, yet they are mostly in our minds anyway.

I think I've had a neighbours's soul from upstairs hanging around for quite a long time without me being aware of the phenomenon. Must be more logical than just random beings from the spirit realm hanging around all that much. You usually need some strong will for things to manifest more densely.

Now I guess the soul connection is in the end a rather flattering thing and might disappear without people taking any real action because the way life writes itself is way more flexible to be rewritten in the spirit realm.... although not really, the mundane environment changes faster than we're accustomed to admit.

I don't know how she'd be available around, perhaps she overheard me talking about some stuff I do or whatever. Too bad the neighborhood's quite odd around here, I've never seen her around, must have something to do with people spending too much time in their homes these days... with me on the top of this phenomenon. Damn, I'm so f*cking isolated in my own world although sometimes I think of it as a more real version of things, but it must be one of those totally contradictory things to manage you know... I'm social and also love to be alone. Damn that's offtopic already but I'd still be interested how would you embrace such mindset... as the one that I carry.
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