Hi! This is a wee long, but I ask for your patience and wise advice.
I had a quarrel with a friend almost 3 years ago. We were very close and suddenly she drifted away with no obvious reason. I tried to maintain our friendship alive for 12 years. Despite my efforts she kept ignoring me at any cost.
Finally 3 years ago I asked her to decide what were we supposed to do, I couldn't be the only one fighting for our friendship. Her reply was the worst I have ever seen in my entire life, she was rude, hurtful and very mean. She did her best to cover all the points that she knew would hurt me very deeply. For me the problem was automatically solved, I broke up with her and I don't plan on keeping any kind of contact with her anymore. However, I would like very much if she could see how hurtful and mean she was, I guess it would help me move on. So, I looked up a spell to make her apologize to me. I have found one and was ready to cast it when I read this part:
Please be sure you're not being hypocritical, because that may cause negative feedback... So, all warnings given, blessed be!
Well, I don't think I'm being hypocritical, I just want her to realize she was nasty and very hurtful. But on the other hand, even if she apologizes I don't plan on giving her another chance. I'm doing this to allow my own wounds to heal and therefore move on. For me this problem will be solved after she apologizes. Please bear in mind that I don't have any kind of vindictive feelings.
I would like to know your advice. Should I cast the spell and hope she'll see her wrong doing? Or just let things develop without any kind of interference?