Oh, and the Love Bath
Do a thorough physical cleaning of your bathroom, and cover any mirrors with material (white or pink towels or sheets are nice). Then draw a bath and to the water add a small handful (about 1/3 to 1/2 cup) of sea salt or other available salt while saying:
"Negativity is washed away, I am renewed as of today! Many heads will turn my way, the ones I chose will wish to stay."
Light three white votive candles or place three floating candles in the bathtub. Focus on your body, how sensual it is, how beautiful you are. Focus on what you like about yourself (there is something). Turn off the lights and turn on your favorite music, something that makes you feel sexy, or calm peaceful, depending on the desired end result you want. Enter the bath and relax, make sure every part of your body is immersed in the water at least once. When you are finished repeat the original words, plus this ending line:
"I am blessed, I am loving, I am loved, and I love myself! I am love!"
Feel free to intuitively add what you like to this. I added lavender to my bath, and if you have any rose petals to spare (later on in the year) you may wish to add them too.
Hope it helps
There are three sides to a coin.