If you have had some bad experiences with love spells, feel free to tell us about them if you want to. I'm sure new witches really need to hear stuff like that so they will know what can happen when they mess with fate.
Are you ready for a love-spell-gone-bad story?
To preface I will say that I have not done a true love spell in more than 15 years - I was so shaken by what I'd done.
(Let this be a lesson to you, do not use this spell. It's NOT GOOD.)
At one time I really liked a musician, a fellow who could write excellent ballads that were mystical - so good you could use them in rituals. It seemed that he had some kind of wisdom that normal men didn't possess. He was well read, full of humor, a good hand around the house, and...charismatic. Everybody liked him. But this fellow wasn't good looking. A little weasle-like, if you looked carefully. Sometimes he was handsome to my eyes. Lust breaks all the rules (as you know) andeven the loathsome can look appetizing.
One day I decided to have him. I figured - what the hay, he's horny, I'm horny, lets do it and have some fun. I didn't have my tools with me, so I did my whammy spell. That means that I make up a spell on the spot and use it with great intent. In my experience, these spells can be the most powerful of all, but the most reckless.
I'd read that by placing a hair or a nail from one's body into something the "intended" is eating or drinking will usually do it. So I got a beer for him, tossed in my pinky-nail into it, and served it up gleefully.
The spell began to work as soon as the sun went down (Less than an hour). Suddenly, he was on me like a wolf. Did I mention that I was accompanied by a boyfriend, and that he witnessed the whole thing, and was amused? The "intended" flirted openly and then became lustful. So lustful that he was grabbing at me in front of my boyfriend. I had hoped for tact and diplomacy, but alas! I had wished for lust, and lust was what I got. He was a pig. I was revolted, and frightened. I found the bottle and washed it in the river, attempting to counteract the spell.
It never quite wore off. The cruel thing was that everyone seemed to just let it go, like it never happened. Even his wife (yes, he was married) paid it no mind.
So let that be a lesson to you, don't fling ASAP spells., They are hazardous.