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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Traumwandlerin » Sun Dec 19, 2010 2:59 pm

For some it works by just focus on the result, some have to be more of the energies involved. Many people that start in witchcraft believe it will suffice to just work magic ritual like you would work with a cooking recipe, just add the right herbs and the oven will do the rest. But you are the oven and you have to send the energy and all those candles are just for you to help your energies on the way. If you don't know anything about energy work yet, I recomment you the section in the Witchcraft school.

But also I would recomment you will not cast a love spell directed to a certain person, cause this is kind of mean to the other person, like raping someone.
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby jittertat » Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:05 pm

Traumwandlerin wrote:For some it works by just focus on the result, some have to be more of the energies involved. Many people that start in witchcraft believe it will suffice to just work magic ritual like you would work with a cooking recipe, just add the right herbs and the oven will do the rest. But you are the oven and you have to send the energy and all those candles are just for you to help your energies on the way. If you don't know anything about energy work yet, I recomment you the section in the Witchcraft school.

But also I would recomment you will not cast a love spell directed to a certain person, cause this is kind of mean to the other person, like raping someone.



Thanks, I was just reading up in that section. Skimmed a few threads, it looks like a good read. I might read it later tonight when everyone's asleep and I'm awake. :lol:
So, by focusing on the result, I'm directing energy? What if, for example, I say, "I want a lover with a nice personality"? How am I meant to imagine someone with a nice personality? Also, how am I meant to visualise their body, namely their face, without directing the spell at a person? Certainly if I'm thinking of someone's face, I'll cast the spell upon them. And it's hard to imagine a face that doesn't belong to someone you know...
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Traumwandlerin » Sun Dec 19, 2010 3:22 pm

Well I mostly concentrate on just the feeling I want to achieve, like being in a relationsip with someone I love and adore and be treated well and be really happy ;)

So focus on the result is not the same as focus on a face and a character, it's focus on what is then. I'm the emotional type, for me emotions are more real than anything else so I focus on the emotions. I doubt that just pics and a desription is the real thing for you, but you have to find what this is for you.
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby luckimmortal » Tue Dec 21, 2010 9:27 pm

Would a break up spell work on a witch that knows your using a break up spell to end the relationship?. Of course I would need to use a spell on some one that wont go away the old fashion "Its not you its me.." way..

anyway if it would ,whats the best one? If it wouldnt, what do I do, I dont feel her love anymore, something changed, but If i tried any spell she would know...

Also, with "driving away a love" spells, do they ever back fire or end to not ever loving again??
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Jevadan3 » Mon Dec 27, 2010 7:32 pm

I have been looking for help and I hope maybe this will reach someone who can give me some advice. I have been married to my husband for 17 years and of the 17 years he has been unfaithful for the past 11. We have three children and I stay with him because of them. I came from a broken home and did not want to go thru the fighting and headache of divorce. I put up with the belittling and emotional abuse he put me thru. I knew in my heart that as soon as the children were grown I would find happiness again. I figured I could wait. Over the past year I have improved my own image and have confidence in myself again. My husband has noticed and wants to rekindle our marriage. Honestly I don't have any intimate feelings for him and really havent since I found out about the last women he was with two years ago. I want so badly to stay friends for our children but I don't want him anymore. I tried to suggest we stay together for the kids and that he could be in other relationships as long as he did not bring them home and the kids didn't "meet them". How can I keep him as a friend without making him hate me. I do love him but I am not and have not been in love with him for some time. I don't believe he will change and I'm ok with that, not all couples are meant to be together. I don't want to control him, I just want him to see me as a friend and not a lover. Can anyone help?
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Traumwandlerin » Tue Dec 28, 2010 9:59 am

Even worse than growing up n a broken home is growing up watching the mother being sad and getting (emotionally) abused. You should cast a spell on yourself, so you are able to see clearly that this relationship is better ended. And then you can cast a spell on yourself so you'll get more coragoues to do so. And then probably later on add a little luck and love spells to your life, so the divorce will be smoothly and the new start will be fresh and great.
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Jevadan3 » Tue Dec 28, 2010 8:31 pm

Thank you for your advice. I think your right trying to find a spell for him is not in my best interest (he is not worthy) but a spell for me to overcome and become empowered... this is exactly what I need :) I do have to admit I have been trying for a long time to find a resoultion to all of this. I purchased a deck of tarot cards today and read the book on how to practice. I layed out my first reading and was amazed at what it revealed. I don't know that I'm interpreting it correctly but it gave me hope. Thank you!!!!!
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Traumwandlerin » Wed Dec 29, 2010 5:02 am

That's nice to hear :) You can hang along in this forum, read and xchange, you will surely learn how to improve your skills and how to empower yourself :)
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby starlight33 » Fri Jan 28, 2011 10:56 pm

i think love spells are fine. It depends on your motive. If you are doing it because lets say "i saw this super cute guy and i want him to be mine" then that's not a good idea. But if its a "Ive known this guy for a while and we kinda had a thing but it died down a little and i think hes just too shy" then i think its fine. sometimes you are manipulating the persons feelings, but helping give them the extra push to approach you and ask you out or get to know you better.
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Traumwandlerin » Sat Jan 29, 2011 7:49 am

But maybe he doesn't want to ask you? Maybe he isn't shy at all but really has no interest in you? And also, why are you not just going over to him and ask him yourself instead of try to magickally manipulate him to ask you out? ;)
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby psychicgirl » Mon Feb 21, 2011 12:32 pm

This thread has been immensly helpful to me. I actually came here looking for a spell...but which one I am still not sure. My bf recently broke up with me...and while I want him back...I am a pretty firm believer in everything happens for a reason. AND I have seen how when men have broken up with me before it has been for the best.

Doesn't make it hurt any less...BUT...I guess I am looking for a spell that covers something like...
if he's "the one" bring him back without delay...but if someone else is "the one" bring him to me...

(I do feel that he is the one but that could just be the love and broken heart talking...sometimes it is hard to see the forst for the trees)...

So what do you think might be the best spell for my situation....

I am working really hard to ust let the universe do it's thing...(but that isn't really my best skill...)

Thanks!

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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Luna Lisa » Mon Feb 21, 2011 5:00 pm

I really don't believe in using love spells. But instead of using love spells to get back a lost love or an ex-boyfriends you could try to use a love spell to bring back more love into your life.
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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby psychicgirl » Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:32 am

Thanks...! I'll give that one a try. Right now..I'm just trying to keep the faith that everything happens for a reason...and if he is supposed to come back...he will.

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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby Esaru Kun » Tue Mar 08, 2011 6:55 pm

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Re: Love Spells - Opinions, Advice, and More...

Postby EmeraldGreenForests » Sat Apr 16, 2011 3:06 pm

i did a love spell recently loveface and was wondering how long they usualy take to activate or start working. i also used one to enter his dreams, will those interfere with each other? :?:
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