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just depressed (venting)

Postby Kovyx » Tue Feb 14, 2017 10:37 pm

My biggest fear is being trapped, stuck in a situation I dislike and have no control over. Once again I'm out of a job, and have no choice but to rely on my parents as I struggle to find another job. But there's no job around here that's as good as the one I had, and I fear that even if I do find another job, in my depressive state, I might use that money as fast as it's coming in.

I hate being here, I hate being stuck in this place, again. again. again. trapped.


Sorry for dropping this on all of you, but I figured maybe you might have or could say something that would help.
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby smogie_michele » Tue Feb 14, 2017 11:00 pm

I know all too well the headache of dealing with financial issues... I'm so sorry that you are feeling so stressed and down. Sometimes it helps to vent to others. You need to go through the bad days to appreciate the good days.

A quote that makes me laugh because it is oh so true: It will pass... It may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass.

What you are going through is going to help shape you in the future. It WILL get better :) Until then, we are here to support you and to listen if you need to vent.
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby Kovyx » Wed Feb 15, 2017 12:08 am

Eheheh, I like that quote ^^ thanks
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby firebirdflys » Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:52 am

I'm sorry you are feeling that way, thank goodness you have parents that can help.
Change can move slowly, be good to yourself as you move through this little metamorphosis.
I'll light you a candle if you like :)
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby Kovyx » Wed Feb 15, 2017 8:32 am

My parents aren't really the nicest people.. well, my mom is very sweet and helpful, but my dad is the reason I'm so scared to be here. This is the third time I've moved out, and then was forced to come back here again. The repetition just makes it feel like it'll always be this way. Though I know that's not true, it's still pretty hard to ignore something that's in your head. It's like having a song in your head that just won't go away, but it's a very angry depressive song that makes you blame yourself for everything that's happening.

Lighting that candle would be nice, thank you
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby Bychan Wulf » Wed Feb 15, 2017 9:20 am

smogie_michele wrote:A quote that makes me laugh because it is oh so true: It will pass... It may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass.

I love this quote too; it makes hope sound more realistic.

Kovyx, I'm so sorry for what happened to you! Did you consider getting a roommate? Sharing the costs can help untill you get stable, and you won't have to move back with your parents if this happens again.(hopefully it won't)
Many blessings and a light are sent towards you. Anyway, remember that this too shall pass!
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby SnowCat » Wed Feb 15, 2017 11:39 am

Situational depression about your situation is really normal. A new job might not seem as attractive as what you had, but making some money is better than making zero money. Hanging on to the past, doesn't improve the present. When you do get another job, set up an automatic deposit to a savings account. If you don't see the money, you're less likely to spend it. This is a challenge that you will step up to and win. Remember, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby firebirdflys » Wed Feb 15, 2017 1:43 pm

Ok lighting candle now.

In the light may the wisdom you seek and employmet that satisfies and light at the end of the tunnel become apparent. :fairy:

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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby Pallando » Wed Feb 15, 2017 7:37 pm

Here is my favorite quote for a situation like this;
"When you are going through hell, dont slow down."
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby CleverlyDisguised » Wed Feb 15, 2017 8:14 pm

SnowCat wrote:Remember, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger.

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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby HighMagickHaven » Wed Feb 15, 2017 8:28 pm

I understand that situation. I send my Positive Energies and Affirmations/Command your way. I hope and wish you the Best that you can receive from all your current situations. Shalom.

Let us know if anything changes. I wish you Happiness And Gladness.

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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby Kovyx » Thu Feb 16, 2017 8:29 am

You are all so sweet and funny, thank you :'3 last night i felt better enough to draw a price chart for my art commissions
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Re: just depressed (venting)

Postby SnowCat » Thu Feb 16, 2017 8:38 am

Pallando wrote:Here is my favorite quote for a situation like this;
"When you are going through hell, don't slow down."


"When you're going through hell, keep on going. Don't slow down, if you're scared don't show it. You might get out 'fore the devil even knows you're there." Rodney Atkins
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