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How and when to curse someone

Postby Traumwandlerin » Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:33 pm

Sooooo, I made a habit out of cursing people. And actually it really helps me a lot. Just take in mind how, why and when you do it.

The problem in cursing people is you need to raise negative energy. Raising negative energy hurts yourself more, than it could hurt anyone else (that's like resistance in circuits). So why do you want to curse someone anyway? Did they hurt you? Do you want to hurt them back? Did they hurt someone you love? And how much do you want to hurt them? Most curses seems like hurting them about 100 times more than they hurted you. And you probably have all those revange-fantasies how the curse should work and what it should do.

Well, I don't do those stuff.

Sadly my boundaries are not perfect. Sometimes I get really mad at people, cause they hurt me. Sometimes these feelings could linger for days inside me and hurt me all this time. I won't let that happen anymore.

Like the one time where I had an appointment, I came there and she told me I won't had one. I made a habit of calling there to ask if I really have an appointment, even though I know I have, but this time no one answered the phone, even though I tried for over an hour. She told me, that someone used the phone for over an hour. So anyways, I was there and she said me to go. I really knew I had an appointment, since I have this appointment every week for over a few months not. Sooo, I asked her if she could tell me, when my next appointment will be, and she said, she can't tell me that, she won't know. Well it's her job to know such things, but obviously for whatever reason she wasn't able to do so. Then I asked her if she could ask the doctor when my next appointment will be, and she said this could take about one hour. Since she didn't knew, if he has currently any patients. Well it's only that she works directly in view to his room and really must have seen if he went by with a patient. So whatever. Of course I rather went to work, than sitting one hour in the waiting room for just one information. Of course I had an appointment. Of course the doctor excused how this went.

Anyway, when I went home I was just raging mad because I had to suffer under the incompetence of other people. This really gets me pissed of, sorry. But instead of raging of all the day, i stuffed up all this feelings and energies induced by the behaviour of this person in a small, little and very angry energy ball and send it back to where it belongs. Since it was her behaviour that induced it, I sent it back to her. Really, maybe she had a really bad day, but there is no reason for her to put her negative energies on me, so I'll gave it back to her. It's much nicer than sending negative erngy in the earth. Earth hasn't done anything wrong.

So, that's what I understand in cursing someone the right way. It sending the energies back where they belong. Let the source deal with it. I didn't need to raise energies, I only used the ones she put inside of me. So it's actually a healing process.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Serendipity » Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:43 pm

I don’t see that as a curse. She created the energy and negativity and you just gave it back to her. That’s her problem.

As I see a curse I create something negative and then give/send it to a person or persons for the express purpose of causing that person(s) harm. I like to think I do this only in self defense and/or as well deserved retribution for some wrong doing by that person(s), but sure, I’ll cop to being less than perfect and occasionally sending more negativity towards a person than he or she might actually deserve.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby ScarlettRose » Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:57 pm

Serendipity wrote:I don’t see that as a curse. She created the energy and negativity and you just gave it back to her. That’s her problem..


I very much agree. (:
I don't see that as a curse at all. When someone does me major major harm, I send that energy back to them like karma. I just say something like "May they get what they deserve." Which will probably happen to them whether or not I do this. I just speed it up a bit. I only do this on horrible occasions..
Breathing in I feel gratitude; Breathing out I give thanks.
Breathing in I feel joyful; Breathing out I celebrate.
Breathing in I know compassion; Breathing I am compassion.
Breathing in I feel loved; Breathing out I offer love.
Breathing in I am still; Breathing out I am at peace.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Ravencry » Tue Nov 09, 2010 8:10 pm

ScarlettRose wrote:
Serendipity wrote:I don’t see that as a curse. She created the energy and negativity and you just gave it back to her. That’s her problem..


I very much agree. (:
I don't see that as a curse at all. When someone does me major major harm, I send that energy back to them like karma. I just say something like "May they get what they deserve." Which will probably happen to them whether or not I do this. I just speed it up a bit. I only do this on horrible occasions..


You get what you send out, basically. Some just happen to be Witches and send it back without damaging them or their Karma :D
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby reikihealer83 » Tue Nov 09, 2010 9:46 pm

I honestly do not believe it is right to outright curse someone. You can wish someone get what they deserve in life and that is a way to make sure Karma will most likely not come back to bite you. Honestly, I find curses to be negetive in the aspect of making someone pay. It is not for us to decide how to make somoene pay for past wrongs, it is for the universe and karma to decide. Just my humble thoughts.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Saker Witch » Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:12 pm

I look at "cursing" as righting a balance. If someone has wronged me, I use every other avenue to restore the balance and the curse or hex is a last resort. It's been in the context of letting their negativity, lies, or whatever it is to come back and bite them in the butt.

A few nights ago my husband and I did what might be considered to be a curse. We went to visit a friend in the hospital (also a Pagan). She has been seriously ill for several months now and believes that it is partially due to the work of a woman she worked with who told others she was going to curse her. What's stupid is, this woman calls herself a Wiccan, and no Wiccan I know would be caught dead doing something like this. Our friend is weak and not well, and asked us if we would do something to protect her and send the bad energy back to this "Wiccan." We did a fairly simple ritual in which we asked that IF this woman was responsible for our friend's illness, the negative energy that she has directed at her will come back on her. We also asked for healing and protection for our friend. I don't consider this evil and I'm not worried about "bad karma" coming back to us.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby ScarlettRose » Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:41 pm

reikihealer83 wrote:I honestly do not believe it is right to outright curse someone. You can wish someone get what they deserve in life and that is a way to make sure Karma will most likely not come back to bite you. Honestly, I find curses to be negetive in the aspect of making someone pay. It is not for us to decide how to make somoene pay for past wrongs, it is for the universe and karma to decide. Just my humble thoughts.


Curses are very negative and I do think it's very bad. But, in my opinion I don't think curses is really what we are talking about here.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Y0m » Tue Nov 09, 2010 11:34 pm

This thread makes me very sad.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Ravencry » Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:05 am

reikihealer83 wrote:I honestly do not believe it is right to outright curse someone. You can wish someone get what they deserve in life and that is a way to make sure Karma will most likely not come back to bite you. Honestly, I find curses to be negetive in the aspect of making someone pay. It is not for us to decide how to make somoene pay for past wrongs, it is for the universe and karma to decide. Just my humble thoughts.

I agree with your thoughts, also. In, my opinion, this is just a binding.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby ScarlettRose » Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:43 am

I'm confused??? How is karma bad, Y0m? I never curse anyone and it doesn't sound like anyone is...
Breathing in I feel gratitude; Breathing out I give thanks.
Breathing in I feel joyful; Breathing out I celebrate.
Breathing in I know compassion; Breathing I am compassion.
Breathing in I feel loved; Breathing out I offer love.
Breathing in I am still; Breathing out I am at peace.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Greek_Male_Witch » Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:55 am

I don't find it a curse either, you just send the energy back, a curse is when you build your own energy of harming to someone else, as Serendipity said,
Traumwandlerin though you told me something once and I got mad but you were right so I'm gonna said it back to you "Stop being a jerk" (no insult intended)

hating is easy, positive energy is hard to make, so if you do feel the need to make someone pay for the negative energy they send you just do a "Get what you deserve spell" and you should be fine!


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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby blackbird » Wed Nov 10, 2010 5:36 am

What was originally asked about in this thread is not a Curse as 'i' percieve a curse. Also, it is good to remember when using terms such as 'Karma' and the like, that not everyone has the same belief's and attitudes to this concept.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Traumwandlerin » Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:16 am

Never thought so many people would jump in this thread ^^ Probably the catchy "curse"

Well a real curse is probably just so out of my "what I would ever do"-list, that I just redefined the word into "sending someone negative energy" which is something I've done here.

And Y0m, you are right, it's still not the perfect way. The perfect way would have been to just not catch this energy or to be able to transform it. I can't do neither, so I'll do the next best thing until I've grown spiritually, I just send it back ;)
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Saker Witch » Wed Nov 10, 2010 9:14 am

blackbird wrote:What was originally asked about in this thread is not a Curse as 'i' percieve a curse. Also, it is good to remember when using terms such as 'Karma' and the like, that not everyone has the same belief's and attitudes to this concept.


That's why I put "bad karma" in quotes, because it is sort of a catch-all term; everyone can interpret it into whatever variation they believe in.
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Re: How and when to curse someone

Postby Serendipity » Wed Nov 10, 2010 10:31 am

I wish the world was the kind of place that always rewarded people for doing the right thing, but it isn't. It is the kind of place where as often as not being nice to people who have hurt you just leads to more hurt at their hands.

Nobody should enjoy cursing someone, and if it is something a person finds herself doing often then I'd say that person has problems with the way she is interacting with the world, but occasionally we have to look after ourself and sometimes a curse is the best of the bad options available.
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