Heather's Advice
Life Lessons and Insights I've Received

NEW! I have started a new Q & A section where I am posting some of the better questions I've received from visitors and the answers I gave them. These are serious questions and I'm not making fun of them like I did on the Dumb Emails page. Click to visit the Spiritual Questions and Answers page.

If you are a pagan or spiritual person, you will love John Denver music. Or if you are a decent human being who loves good music, you will very likely love John Denver. Currently, my favorite J.D. song is Rhymes and Reasons. I'm making a John Denver page (in progress) so I can show my love for him here on my site. I love you, John! I hope you are having a great time on the other side!

I removed a lot of the advice on this page until I can find the time to add some good things to it. I was really tired of what I had here previously. Read the Spiritual Q and A. I keep meaning to change this page but I have been getting sidetracked very easily.

A bit of advice.... (okay, apparently I didn't remove that much of it....)

Do affirmations to get what you want in life. Here are some examples of my own personal affirmations. I made these up just now so that's why they haven't come true for me yet, but they will.

• I finish what I start. I quickly and easily complete projects.

• I enjoy working on my website.

• My website brings joy, happiness, peace, and inspiration to others.

• I lead people away from negative thinking and towards a positive outlook.

• Humans live in harmony with one another.

• I AM my brother's keeper and I happily do everything I can to encourage others and help them become the best they can be.

Those are just the affirmations related to my website and my work. I also have affirmations for my health, my spiritual development, my relationships, and many other things. I have not gotten into a habit of doing them consistently yet, but I think I have finally figured out a way to remember to do them. I am going to have my step-daughter remind me since she does hers every day and night and even has them written in her phone. If you are a parent, please teach your children how to use mind power and affirmations to become happy, healthy, productive people. You cannot imagine the effect it will have. The influence that affirmations have are HUGE. My step-daughter repeated many times that she was "open-minded" and now she is seemingly able to receive information from the Universe in a unique way. I can't say more about it at this time but hope to update you on this new development.

If there is something that you don't like about yourself, you want to create an affirmation that will state your desire for yourself, and the affirmation must be stated in a positive way. Here are examples:

Instead of: I am not fat.
You'll say: I am healthy and beautiful.

Instead of: I do not lose my temper.
You'll say: I am patient and kind.

If you need help with this, you can contact me through MySpace. I am only giving spiritual guidance now. I do not do spells for others and I don't help with witchcraft issues. Using witchcraft, in most cases, seems to be like putting a band-aid on a deadly stab wound. It just isn't very effective because most people who are using spells don't recognize that they are creating the drama in their lives in the first place. If you want a drama-free lifestyle, you have to change your thought patterns and your behaviors. More on that later.

Read up on reincarnation if you haven't already. A wonderful book to start with is "Journey of Souls" by Michael Newton, Ph.D.

I have a Spiritual and Pagan Message Board. There are lots of nice, helpful people there if you want to ask them for advice.

Hey, here's something that I read on Consumer Reports.org. If you wear mascara and you tend to get dry eyes, it may be because you are clogging your tear glands with the mascara. Your tear glands are at your lash line, so you should only put mascara on the tips of your lashes, not the base. This way, your eyes can produce tears and stay moist.

Read Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart. If you keep getting dumped by guys or they use you for sex, read this book so you can learn what you're doing that is screwing things up for you.